"DR. STORK" the T.V. DORK
“Are YOU ‘That Girl” author MISSES the BOAT with THIS GIRL
No offense to Dr. Phil having Dr. Stork, author of “Are you THAT
GIRL” on his show last night, but I feel that Dr. Stork (seriously, is this
his REAL name) misses the boat…forget missing the boat, he isn’t even on the
dock with this book. How flattering to the female population that he can categorize women and place them in a cubbyhole of definition, easily telling THEM what the problem with
THEM is and why they can’t find a partner. To me, this is infuriating!
Dr. Stork – go stand on one leg
somewhere while lifting the other one (preferably on a telephone pole). What
YOU and Dr. Phil don’t get is that it’s the ENERGY that these women send out –
nothing more, nothing less. It has nothing to do with “Agenda girl” that
desires marriage (which you inappropriately label as desperate). “Agenda
girl” holds the intention to get married because this is what she wants! She
isn’t “scaring men off with expressing her desire” when asked what she plans
for her life, she is being truthful.
“Working Girl” (again, totally inappropriate that you label her as such)
obviously uses her work to hide her emotional unavailability. Dig at the reason
WHY she is so afraid and emotionally unavailable, but don’t slap a label on her
and tell her to ‘work on it’. Gee. That’s helpful.
In the end, you do an analysis of
the women featured on the program by SPYING on their girlie girl conversations
– and have the audacity to allow two additional men judge them. The huge insult
is when one of these “expert men” places a big red X over some of the women.
And, to add insult to injury, Dr. Stork, you even ADMIT that MOST of these
women have the problems they carry BECAUSE of the men they’ve chosen to have
relationships with. WHO is ‘FIXING’ WHOM?
Here’s Jane’s version of what this
poor excuse for literature SHOULD be:
“Are YOU THAT MAN?”
- Do you belch and not say ‘excuse me’? (I’ll label you
Ill mannered pig)
- Do you have no problem with threatening a woman
physically? (I’ll label you: Physical Manly-Man that can’t beat up on
one of your own, but feels big beating up on women).
- Are you threatened by the intelligence of a woman?
(I’ll label you Insecure Man that needs a trophy to make himself feel
better).
- Are you constantly accusing the woman in your life of
cheating? (I’ll label you Cheater Man – because those that accuse
SHOULD BE accused).
- Do you feel superior to women, and feel the need to
label them to put them in their place? (I’ll label you Fake Doctor that
feels the need to categorize human behavior and capitalize on it).
There. I feel so much better!
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I’m off to a 2-day retreat in
Sedona today! I am very VERY excited about getting the recharge from the
mystical energy in Sedona. I will be available for your calls on a limited
basis, so please use the arrange-a-call feature should you need a reading.
Whenever I go to Sedona, and come back to work I get such a thrill out of the
enormity of clarity that I receive. Meditating on a red rock does have its
advantages! I’ll be back in full swing on Friday!
Sending you angels,
Jane