Reuniting Lovers
One of my specialties is clarification readings. When callers contact me for a clarification reading, often they have been told different things by different readers that seem to be in conflict and want to clear up confusion. Of course, there could be many reasons for this. Obviously, one could be right and the other wrong. But usually a clarification reading is not about taking sides, or impeaching one and validating the other. It's usually based on the assumption that both are legitimate and both have a track-record of accuracy, but in one particular area they are in conflict.
"What?" you ask. "If both are legitimate, how can they be in conflict?" Quite easily. Professional psychics are not all-seeing and all-knowing. They have to interpret the information given. Suppose one sees a breakup as when the decision is made to break up. Suppose another interprets the breakup as occurring when one party tells the other he/she is history. Suppose yet another sees it as the moment they both establish separate addresses. They're all right, but the time frames are different.
The greatest number of clarification readings occurs in the area of reuniting lovers. Now, when I say "reuniting lovers" this in itself needs clarifying. Many advisers state that they reunite lovers. And this term in itself is rather broad in that it can mean many things. When I use the term, and I use it rarely, I make it clear that I cannot, and will not, impinge on the free will of another human being. When I talk about reuniting lovers, what I mean is that as an empath, I can link to the other person, tell you how they feel, what they are thinking and, if a reunion is possible, give you advice on what to do to try to bring it about.
When doing clarification readings in the area of love and relationships, it is extremely emotionally charged. There is a lot of pain and anxiety involved. Many individuals therapeutically call multiple readers until they find one who tells them what they want to hear, and immediately invalidate the others in a desperate attempt to create a reality that gives them hope and comfort. It's very difficult to tell a person, "You shopped around until you heard what you wanted to hear, found someone who handed you a basket of roses." Often these people become very reactive and angry. But they are paying to hear the truth, so that's what they hear.
Often I am confronted with the accusation that a reader's predictions did not come to pass. Perhaps the most difficult situation is when dealing with a small
number of clients who are not realistic about the limitations of a psychic reading. They believe that if a psychic is
legitimate he/she should be able to answer any "What color of tie was Todd wearing yesterday?" question unerringly, and have an unerring picture of the future, and free will is just a cop out used to cover one's tracks. Okay, now welcome to the real world. If I tell you you're going to lose your job because you keep coming in late, so you accept that or do you start arriving on time? And once you act on this, you don't lose your job so the prediction doesn't come to pass. Does this mean I was wrong, or does this mean our intervention changed the flow of events and the reading saved your job?
By and large, the most common reason for conflict is because free will events have occurred between readings that changed the flow of events. Often people who are desperate don't let the flow of events occur, but attempt to force something to happen and disturb the flow of events themselves or speed things up. For example, they are advised to wait and let the dust settle or certain pivotal events need to occur in the life of the other person before he/she can come back around, and they simply can't wait so they intervene and push the other person even further away or extend the time frame. Then, "This psychic said this was going to happen and it didn't. He/she must be a fake." "No, that psychic made a prediction based on the current flow of events, which you altered."
Finally, on the subject of reuniting lovers, sometimes it's not always a good thing. Often people in the throes of blind love can only see it to the point of "getting" that person, not what comes next. Frequently, the very reason you're having an issue with someone is because that person is toxic, and it would be much better to move on than spend the rest of your life with someone who has been treating you like dirt.
It's never easy, but that's what life is all about. We're here to learn and grow, and we can't do that without challenges.
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