The Holidays are a time of friends and family and loved ones. Sometimes situations occur and you find yourself spending the holidays alone. Christmas and New Year's are the hardest days to spend without someone special in your life or in some cases, without friends or family. The best way to survive the holiday season alone is to begin planning now and arrange your day the best way possible.

OK, that certainly sounds easy but is it easier said than done? That all depends on your perspective of the holidays and where you chose to put your focus. Christmas and New Years are just like any other days of the year. There have been years that I have chosen to be alone to just unwind and have a quiet day, or spend the day with my dogs or one or two very close friends. So, cheer up, you are not alone. Approach the day with happiness rather than gloom and you will find the day peacefully passes!!! But, plan ahead and BE GOOD TO YOURSELF!!!

I've listed below some things you can begin to plan now to make your day very, very special!

1: Be kind to YOU!!!! You may want to decorate the house, send out christmas cards, buy yourself something special. Plan a special breakfast for yourself and if you are going to be alone for dinner - plan a nice meal for yourself. Buy a fine wine or champagne you have been wanting to try. Don't deprive yourself of anything! Treat yourself well.

2: There are millions of people across the country (and world) that are spending the holidays alone. I know it seems like you are the only person alone; but you are not. You may or may not find peace in knowing that.. but at times many of us spend important holidays alone. So, check out 'groups' and see if there are others in your community spending the holidays alone. Perhaps you can meet for brunch and have a holiday get-together with some of your neighbors who may also be alone. If not, then perhaps you have a virtual on-line buddy that you can plan to exchange holiday greetings with or chat with throughout the day

3: Check your community events. Some communities hold 'Community Dinners' or Singles events' throughout the holidays.

4: Plan events for the day. If you are going to be alone be sure to pick up your favorite book or movie and look forward to some quiet time to get caught up with work, reading, writing, watching your favorite movies, etc. Try not to have the book or movie about the holidays, or an especially sad 'tear-jerker' movie - that can make you seem more alone.. select carefully.

5: Call your friends. See if anyone else is alone for the holidays and if so - INVITE THEM OVER!!! You may want to host a small dinner party with some other friends who will also be alone.

6: Start now and begin to communicate with friends and find out what their plans are. If they know you are going to be alone, they may very well invite you over.

7: If none of the above works for you then if your situation allows itself.. plan a vacation over the holidays. There are plenty of singles tours/vacations with a host of locations you can chose from. Or go solo and enjoy meeting new people.

8: VOLUNTEER: If none of the above entices you, perhaps volunteering at your local charity would pique your interest. You can be with other people and gain a sense of inner satisfaction know you are doing something valuable helping less fortunate people. In reality I would love to suggest this first, but most people wouldn't continue reading. This is such a lost 'art' the desire to volunteer. Even if you are feeling lonely or gloomy - spending the day with the less fortunate will make you feel AMAZING!!!!!!

9: If all else fails, schedule an appointment with me. I will be available (by appointment only).

Most importantly, I sincerely hope you find the happiness you seek.

Blessings!

-Lady Fontaine

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Lady Fontaine is an authentic psychic CERTIFIED by the International Certification of Psychics! She has been listed on the TOP 5 PSYCHICS world-wide for 8 consecutive years!!! She is compassionate, honest, with astounding accuracy. Lady Fontaine is personally responsible for over 350 marriages - helping to coach and provide psychic insight to enrich relationships of her clients.

This weekend - Saturday Nov 29th and Sunday November 30th Lady Fontaine is offering 10 FREE MINUTES for all calls lasting 15 minutes or longer. For calls lasting 20 minutes or longer, in addition to the free minutes she will do a special 2009 New Year's Special BLESSING for you (a $75.00 value). Lady Fontaine believes in the Law of Reciprocity - which basically says 'What you Sow.. you reap' and in order to receive you must give. Her clients consider her extremely generous with her time and free minutes!

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