Please Mind Your Manners When Posting Comments On Blogs
Recently I posted a blog that was not well liked by a lot of people. Instead of looking over it, many found it as an opportunity to vent their anger and frustrations, or an open invitation to insult me. It is very obvious that some of those who commented have a very poor opinion of me.
This is a sampling of the comments:
"I hope this isn't the only form of income you receive because, I actually like you, but you seem to keep sabatoging yourself." " Please, for your own sake, stop this!""Until this NOT cohesive behavior with your loving but truthful colleagues ends, it could be your downfall." "Are you suffering?""get 'centered'..You're not doing yourself any favors.""you seem to keep sabatoging yourself."
Then emails:
" I will never respond to you rediculous and angry posts again...... "
"just go and write your rediculous poor me blogs"
Then there were other similar comments that were deleted. Some claimed that the comments didn't come from them but someone who hacked into their computer and requested that I delete those. Suprisingly some
derogatory comments were left on Mother's day, but were deleted. Some of the comments seemed to be harassing in nature and have that cut throat, backstabbing tone to them. One person blocked me, and unblocked me long enough to "show concern" with more of their angry words just to get me to remove her comments, and then blocked me again. She has been emailing clients to explain her loving words of "your not doing yourself any favors Lexy." Who knows what else she is saying behind my back? She pretended I took her words the wrong way. She used words like "we" and " some of us" then avoided the question when I asked her who else. She was more concerned with a stranger's perception of her than she was any friendship. Not to mention it would appear as if someone was trying to drive me away from KEEN. It would seem odd to get so many to gang up on you and put you down just because you wrote a blog. Frankly I am
shocked that people who claim to be so caring, loving, and spiritual could make such
derogatory comments, and judge me so harshly because I posted a blog that didn't meet their standards. It was just a silly blog they took out of context. It is hard not to get frustrated with these types of comments, and difficult to keep my responses to these negative comments nice.
I wanted to take a moment to remind everyone that not every blog posted will be liked by everyone.And if you write one that is not well liked, someone you think is your friend could end up stabbing you in the back. Please try to keep your comments polite, or don't comment at all. Let's show some respect for others. Not everyone can post blogs to please you, or live up to your expectations. I am certaintly not one who is going to bend over backwords to try.
ADDED:
Lately some have taken the attitude to turn their noses up at some of my blogs. Some were inspired to write their own blogs. It would appear that what I wrote was beneath them. Instead of overlooking it, they chose to get angry and hostile. My blogs are not about you or directed towards you. Whomever you may be at the time. If you somehow got some message out of my blog deal with it, and move on. Don't come attacking me because the message was not to your liking. I have no idea what is going on in your life. However, one can not expect to dish out dirt at someone, or talk about them behind their back and think their actions are any better. Some have crossed the line, by gossiping to clients. Who knows how many clients they have gossiped with? Or who else they are gossiping with? They kept using words like "WE" and "US" so it would appear that they were not acting alone. Some have made numerous reports against me, attempting to have me removed from KEEN. If my blog bothered someone to this extent they have serious issues to deal with, and need to spend MORE time working on their issues, And less time worying about MY blogs. You can't attempt to control people's lives just because they did something you didn't like. Move on already and get a life of your own. It is up to you to live your own life, as it is up to me to live mine.