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~ LIGHT & LOVE ~ with Dr Daragh

~ WISDOM, WIT & INSIGHT TO ENLIGHTEN & INSPIRE ~

~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~
Blogs were created as a communication opportunity between the author and readers out in cyber space.

Readers can be anyone, anywhere....sometimes that fact is forgotten by the author in the midst of expressing their passion...positive or not...blogs are an extension of who we are.

 In regards to blogs.... your thoughts & words & actions are energy and do have cause & effect results in the universe.

Unfortunetly, it is all too common in human nature to be attracted to "dirty laundry" .
There is something about certain negative or unfortunate situations/energies that draws people in.

What we do when we are witness to these situation is always free choice.

Often these situations envoke feelings of compassion, sadness, anger & frustration within us as witnesses.

Do we rush in and join in on the ridicule of someone if they have made an error?

Do we get on our high horse and claim to "know better" and that we would never do that?

Do we offer our self as mediator of sorts, with  a genuine intention of helping those in conflict find a way to resolution?

Do we witness yet simply stay silent?

Do we stay silent because we know we do not belong in this, like the sayings go...mind your own business & keep your nose out of other people's business?

In my humble opinion, there really is no right or wrong way to act in the face of such situations. I believe each situation offers all of us the opportunity to go within and find our personal best, and then act upon that.
There is always something to learn for each of us about ourselves.

I know I have made errors
I know I am grateful for forgiveness given to me & when I give it to others
I know I have butt in and fueled the fire
I know others have butt in on my issues and fueled the fire
I know how easy it is to be misunderstood, especially regarding written words
I know how easy it is to misunderstand someone's written words & messages
I know how it hard it is to see the error of my ways
I know how hard it is to  then admitt those errors to others
I know how hard it is for others to see the error of their ways
I know how hard it is for others to have to admitt their errors to others
I know others may not care for me
I know others may not agree with me
I know I may not agree with others
I know self respect & self love are necessary for each of us
I know respect & trust must be earned, not freely given
I know forgviness of self and others is so necessary
I know we are all human
I know we all have room for improvement
I know everyday we are offered opportunitites to improve
I know I have lessons waiting for me today & everyday
I know I will not always master my lessons on the first try
I know compassion for myself allows me to offer it to others
I know ....there is so much to learn from all who cross my path
I know I am grateful for every opportunity to live & learn



Sending you Light & Love today & always,
Dr Daragh
ext 0696856
                                                       


" What we think, or what we know, or what we believe in, is,
in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do."
                                             
                                                    John Ruskin  1819-1900 England




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Published Tuesday, May 13, 2008 11:55 PM by Light and Love
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Comments

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 1:54 PM

Well said, Dr. Daragh.  Thank you for this thought provoking blog.

Capricorn 1

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 1:54 PM

Thank you for sharing this, it was wonderful and thoughtful and I appreciate your sharing it, makes us all think :-)
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:12 PM

Dear Capricorn 1,

Thanks for stopping by and I am glad you enjoyed this post :)

I enjoy blogging(sharing)  :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:12 PM

Dr. Daragh:

This is so apropos right now and very much needed. Thank you for sharing it with us.

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:14 PM

Dear Joan,

Life offers us many opportunities to stop and think :)

Thank you for your kind & supportive comments :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:17 PM

Dear Rosie,

I feel very strongly in being the change I want to see happen :)

Each of us will be where the other is today and vice versa...it's just a matter of time :)

Thank you for your support & kindness :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

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# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:28 PM

Very good soul food much needed here.

GIFTED11

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:37 PM

This blog rings true. It is certainly a message that is much needed.

Lexy Moon

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:38 PM

Dear Donna,

Thank you :)
I was feeling hungry and found this within myself...so I thought I would share it with others :)
Thank you for your supportive comment :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:03 PM

Dear Lexy,

Thank you for your support :)
I am glad you found some truth in these words and their messages resonate within you :)
Thanks for stopping in & sharing :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:31 PM

Blogs were indeed created for the purposes you mentioned, but Keen blogs were created for a more specific purpose - to help advisors communicate with their callers and spread the Keen word. If a handful of advisors abuse this platform by carrying out personal vendettas and venting their spleen, then they may spoil this wonderful space for us all. In that sense, it IS our business because it affects our business. It needs to stop before Keen steps in and stops it.
Thanks for raising the issue in a way that is dignified and sensible.
:))
Faith

Faith New Zealand

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:45 PM

I guess it all depends on how far your rabbit hole goes... and what YOU truly believe *wink*

GIFTED11

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:53 PM

Dear Faith,

Thanks for your honesty :)
In response to "it IS our business" I want to reiterate my personal choice in dealing with this matter which is "I choose to be the change I want to see happen" meaning, I will carry myself with dignity and respect for myself and others. I can not change others, I can only change how I respond & react to them. It is my sincere hope that Keen allows these blogs to continue and if there is an issue that can not resolve itself, I hope that Keen will handle that individually,on an as needed basis vs taking this blog away from all of those who offer their best in their blogs :)
Thanks for stopping in :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:57 PM

Dear Donna

:) !!!!!

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:03 PM

Dr Daragh,

I agree with you entirely we need to be the change. I believe what will happen with keen will happen. We have a much grander source  over seeing the truth and works with us always.

Great inspiration of the day this blog!

GIFTED11

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:08 PM

Dear Dr. Daragh,
I feel as if I am writing a Dear Dr. Phil letter here. Your way seems to be the best way so far. As a caller or client if you wish, I enjoy reading these blogs. I would hate to stop reading them because of a few rotten apples here and there. I've picked up some good advice here and there, and had some chuckles too.
Cheers
R.J.M.

beachbum

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:17 PM

Thank you for sharing the article

Ancestor of Light

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:20 PM

Dear Beachbum,

I LOVE your Keen name, hits a spot deep in my heart :)
I agree with you that the majority of blogs offer  ALL of us insight, wisdom and sometimes just plain old fashioned fun & laughs :)

Thank you for taking the time to write your Dear Dr Phil letter....I appreciate your honesty and input :)

Surf's up :) Hang 10 :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:21 PM

Dear Ancestor of Light

Thanks for stopping by & sharing your positivity!

I am glad you enjoyed this post :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:30 PM

Dear Donna,

I agree with you 110%
there is a much higher power then Keen :)

I am touched deeply by your comment on this being  a great inspiration of the day...as this is my true intention always with my blogs :)
Thank you~ I am honored to share myself always :)

Light & Love
Dr Daragh  

Light and Love

# re: ~ Dirty Laundry, Blogs & Life ~ @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 5:12 PM


To error is human, to forgive is divine :)

This includes forgiving our self as well as forgiving others :)

Light and Love

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