~ WISDOM, WIT & INSIGHT TO ENLIGHTEN & INSPIRE ~
~ Do you need to make some CHANGES in your life? ~
Today, my message to you is about a word that scares us all.... CHANGE!
Think for a moment right now, what in your life would you change if you could?
Perhaps you would try to eat more healthy or exercise more?
Maybe you want to stop attracting negative people and situations into your life?
We all have changes, as that is the energy & nature of life. Nothing stays the same, nothing.
In order to bring about change, we must become aware of what it is exactly we want to clear out and bring into our lives.
I have often written about clearing out the old in order to make room for the new.
Change offers us just that!
Do
not fear change, for it is a part of growth & development. Change
must occur in order to acheive that which we desire in our life.
When
faced with change, we often are filled with fear. Fear of the unknown
and fear of how we will cope without whatever we are leaving behind.
Know
now, your fear is far worse than the actual event! You can take that
step toward change, and actually you must. The other choice would be to
accept what is and stay put. It may appear to be easier to stay put,
but in the long run....think of all the time you will spend being
unhappy and uncomfortable, realize all you will let slip by you because
you were too afraid to face the fear of making changes.
You have two choices here, accept what is or go and get what you really want. Which do you want to do?
Small
steady steps toward change are available today, right here & right
now for you. You don't have to wait until everything is in a certain
order/way before taking action. For example, a woman wants to leave her
relationship, as it is not healthy and she has been unhappy for a long
time now. She has no family in the area, so a move seems unrealistic to
her. She does however have friends who will help her, one in fact has
room in her home and has told her that she would take her in and even
help her move out. Yet, the woman does nothing....she stays in her
unhealthy relationship, all because she is too afraid to make the
change. Staying there makes her miserable, yet leaving frightens her
enough to think she should stay,simply because it is easier. This
situation is far too common.
Gathering courage when
faced with change is a must. Without it, you simply accept what is as
being the only option you have, so you stay in an unhappy situation.
Today,
search your heart, and find one change you want to create in your life.
Write it down. Then, write down small steps you can take to bring about
that change. It doesn't all have to be done in one big step, as that is
exactly why many people are too afraid and just accpet unhappiness as a
way of being. They think one big step, well that is too scary and quite
honestly, too much for most of us to tackle and take on. So think small
steps done gently and with each step, you will eventually bring about
the change you are seeking.
Do not let fear keep you in an unhappy
life....You have what it takes within you to go out and create your
dreams of happiness :)
" Change the changeable
Accept the unchangeable
and remove yourself from the unacceptable."
I
am here today to take your calls and guide you through your changes.
Please arrange a callback if my call button indicates I am away, as it
is only for a short break. I will be taking your calls all day until
10PM(mst) this evening, with some breaks in between. I look forward to
speaking with you soon!
Light & Love
Dr Daragh
ext 0696856 contact Dr Daragh
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