~ IT'S OVER.....NOW WHAT? ~
" There will be a time when you believe everything is finished.
That will be the beginning."
Louis L'Amour
When you find yourself going through a challenge, you may find yourself facing what appears to be a dead end. You stare at the obstacle, and despite your longing to get beyond it, you can see no doorway that will lead you through it or even take you around it.
Life is full of experiences that will make you feel this way;
Your intimate relationship comes to an end or feels perpetually stuck
Your career feels unsatisfying, like it is going nowhere
A project or person you have invested a lot of time & energy into doesn't work out
Your dream to do or be or achieve something doesn't seem to becoming true
Tragic events occur in life that you can not imagine recovering from
How are you supposed to go forward in such difficult times?
How can you pass through what seems to be impossible roadblocks on your way to happiness?
You can begin by remembering....
Things are not always as they appear to be
What appear to be dead ends in relationships may be powerful opportunities for deeper intimacy, or even a new love beyond what you can even imagine.
What appear to be dead ends in your work/career may be powerful opportunities for new avenues of creativity and new realms of success.
What appear to be dead ends in your happiness may be powerful opportunities for new experiences of rediscovery and regeneration.
What appears to be dead ends in your faith and hope may be powerful opportunities for new levels of wisdom & awakening.
The obstacles in your path are not blocking you, they are redirecting you.
Their purpose is not to interfere with your happiness; it is to point you toward new routes to happiness, new possibilities, new doorways.
" When one door closes another door opens;
but often we look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door,
that we do not see the ones which open for us."
Alexander Graham Bell
Here is the problem.... YOU ARE FACING THE WRONG DIRECTION
Here is the solution..... SIMPLY TURN AROUND
Turn around and turn away from where you have been and can no longer be.
Turn around and turn away from what has ended.
Turn around and face what lies in front of you: the new path, the new destination, the new doors waiting to be opened.
Until you turn around
You will see nothing but the past with all of it's disappointments
You will only see what is no longer available or possible
THIS WILL ONLY MAKE YOU FEEL DESPONDENT, DEFEATED AND WORST OF ALL .....POWERLESS.
Remember, you get yourself stuck when you stand there and stare at one thing that is no longer possible, and don't look at everything that is now available.
I am available tonight on Keen.
Please arrange a callback if my "ALERT" button is on. I am only on a short break and I will return your call quickly. You may also arrange an appointment if you would like to connect at time that is best for you. I look forward to sharing with you soon.
Sending you Light & Love to guide you on your journey today & always :)
Dr Daragh