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~ PLEASE... BE PREPARED FOR THE ANSWERS BEFORE YOU ASK YOUR QUESTIONS ~
When you call an advisor with a question, PLEASE be sure you are ready to not only HEAR the truth but LISTEN to the truth! There seems to be many clients that call looking for the answer to the question, "Is he/she coming back?", or "will we get back together, I really miss her/him."
The advisor has only one option once you have asked this question, and that is to answer you honestly with their "knowing, sensing".
Please, be prepared for the answer NO, as sometimes that is the case.
Believe me, as an advisor, it is a difficult task that requires a lot of tact and compassion. I am not telling you NO because I want to burst your bubble of hope & longing for a past lover to come back. I am telling you NO because, that is the answer I get. I know it is hard to have your hopes set high, only to hear NO it is not going to happen, he/she has moved on. I have no intention of telling you what you want to hear, just to keep the peace so to speak. Please, remember, I am human! I feel your pain and heart breaks and tears, as I am an empath. I always try to break the news as gently as I can, as I know there is no way to deliver the news easily. I use compassion as my guide, for I too have had a broken heart, I too have loved & lost. I know that I am going to tell you exactly what you DON'T want to hear, so I ask you this please, do not ask the question unless you are trully prepared for the truth. I also want you to remember an old saying, "Don't shoot the messenger!"
Once I have delievered the answer of NO, he/she is not coming back to you, I always go on to the focus which is YOU. What are you to do now that your bubbles are bursting, and your heart is aching even more. Remember, there is a purpose & lesson in every situation in your life. I focus in on that lesson right away, as your focus needs to shift from worry & wonder about THE OTHER PERSON, back onto YOURSELF. I am an expert in this area, and feel that is why Spirit leads clients to me that have this lesson on their path. I will guide you along, slowly & gently, as I know firsthand, exactly how you feel. I want to tell you right here and right now, You can get through this, and yes you will have love again in your life! So please, if you want to know if you will be reunited with a past lover, please please please, be ready for the truth, and the possibility that the answer will be NO.
As a counselor, I know there are going to be stages of grief & loss that you will go through, so I never take your anger or doubt personally. I know better then to do that!!
As I said, I will guide you through the next steps on your path which will include anger, denial and doubt of self ever having love again. These are normal human emotions that come with being hurt and broken hearted, know I am an expert in this, and I am here for you every step of the way!
You will not always ache so deeply, you will learn to trust again, you will learn to open your heart to someone new. This all takes time, but it can and must be done. This is your part, your responsibility to yourself and only you can choose to do this! I am here to guide you through it, but ultimately you must decide you want to! Letting go of someone you have loved and longed for is a challenge and there is nobody on this earth that will escape this challenge and lesson.
Remember, self love is the key to having others come into your life to add romantic love to your life. Nobody will fill your heart & soul with the love you need to feel for yourself.
So, if you are at this point on your path, know that I am here to guide you through this bumpy bit on the path!
Remember, you must be prepared for the answer to the questions you ask, and all that will follow the truthful answer.
I am here for you every step of the way, you don't have to go it alone!
With compassion, knowledge, wisdom & guidance...you can make it through this to the other side which is waiting there for you once you are ready to face your challenges!
Light & Love today & always,
Dr Daragh
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