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~ Searching For Happiness ?? ~
So many of us are trying to find happiness. Why is it so hard?
" You can not go around being what everyone wants you to be,
living your life through other people's rules,
and expect to be happy & have inner peace."
Dr Wayne Dyer
Happiness and inner peace are the eternal quest of all humans.
Why does it seem that others have everything they want, and you can't seem to find one bit of happiness. Perhaps you are trying to be what others say you should be?
I likened that to trying to wear shoes that are not your size.
They may be beautiful shoes and match your outfit perfectly to complete your look, but they are so uncomfortable and painful that their beauty is lost in the pain. Sure your outfit looks great for others to see, but you are suffering with each minute you wear those shoes :)
When we try to wear energy that does not fit us, like being a certain way to make another like us or accept us, it actually brings us great pain.
Having the courage to be who you are is not easy, but neither is living a life full of pain within because others say we should be someone other then we are.
Truth is, no matter how much pain you are willing to bear....you will not be happy pretending to be comfortable when you are not.
Take those shoes and give them to someone who does fit them comfortably, and go and find a pair you are truly comfortable wearing.
When we are comfortable, we attract energy that will add to our happiness.
Happiness comes from within, nobody will create what you yearn for deep within.
That is your job and your job alone.
Others will be attracted to your energy as you radiate inner happiness and joy.
You will find people who like you and support you just the way you are coming into your life the moment you stop trying to be who you are not.
Below is a mantra/positive affirmation to help you be just who you are.
" I live my life in my own way"
Go ahead, be who you are and put all that energy into yourself instead of into creating a false you.
Being untrue to self will only attract more untrue energy into your life, so that is NOT the way to discovering happiness.
Be happy with yourself, faults and all....for none of us are perfect.
Besides....perfection is over rated :)
Be yourself....that alone will bring you happiness!!
Once you are radiating happiness....people and situations will come into your life to add to your happiness :)
You will attract what will compliment who you really are.
Falseness will only attract more falseness ~
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Dr Daragh
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