~ The Path You Are On ~
So often, clients call asking "where am I and How did I get here?" Then of course the infamous "WHY??"
Each of us is on our own individual path. Twists and turns and even dead ends are common for all of us to encounter. It is said that the journey is the mission not the destination. To me that means, each & every obstacle or joy we meet has it's purpose in our life. Trials & tribulations give us the oppportunity to strengthen our beliefs. They do not occur as punishment nor are they there to break us down and create unhappiness for us. When we meet with a circumstance/situation that brings us to our knees, tears are flowing and the heart feels as though it has been shattered like glass into a million shards, we often feel so lost and so alone.
When we lose our way, we can very easily stray from our true desires and our true self/higher self. We can feel as though we are destined to be miserable. Even worse, some of us give up on our dreams and desires, thinking we just don't deserve them, or they are just dreams, completely unobtainable.
STOP RIGHT THERE!!!
If this is the way you are feeling I want to help you realize that your thinking is exactly what is keeping you from obtaining & reaching your goals and dreams. I know first hand just how hard this life can be, pain is pain & hurt is hurt. Yes, you are entitiled to feel loss, and broken hearted for a time, as processing and healing take time. There is no proper time allowed so to speak with regards to how fast you should get over it or get on with it. In fact, I always say it is NOT a process of you getting over it but rather a process of you getting thru it, working thru what has occured and how you feel. As you work thru your experience, you will begin the process of healing. Too many people swallow or bury their hurt and say they are over it....I wonder if that is why addiction runs rampant in our world.
Each painful loss offers us the opportunity to strengthen our self, to gain a clearer focus of what it is we really want. Allowing yourself to mourne your loss is healthy. Allowing your loss to control your thinking and your outlook on your future is not!
The Path is not easy for any of us to walk. We have support systems such as freinds & advisors, but ultimately, we each choose our direction and our path.We choose by our thinking, our outlook and our actions. Dreams of love and acceptance can be kept alive even after heartbreak and despair. Broken hearts must pick up the pieces that remain and put them back together as best they can. If you don't, and you stop believing in yourself as a lovable person or a person worthy of love from another, you will never find what your true self/higher self desires. The relationship that broke your heart can not be allowed to destroy your dreams~only you can destroy your dreams by not believing in them, by giving up.
When life gets hard as it often does, reach out to someone and release your hurt, release your emotions of despair. Once you do that, you will begin to be able to believe again. Do not expect to keep your dreams alive inside you if you allow the hurt to grow and fester within you. Release it and clear the space to allow your dream to grow. It is only up to each of us which direction we choose on our path. Choose to follow & believe in your dreams :)
"The path of the heart takes you out of the mind."
Ram Dass
Make the choice today, clear your mind & heart of all the negative emotions & energy they contain due to life experiences you have faced. Make today the day you decide to regain control over what direction you will walk on your path. Make today the day you commit to keeping your dreams alive despite the hurts you have encountered. Make today the day you begin to open and release all the negative that is not who you really are~Make today the day you commit to reconnecting with your true self, your higher self, the part of you that keeps your dreams :)
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Light & Love today & always,
Dr Daragh
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