It's easy to feel hurt in a romantic relationship. But still, some folks want to know how they can be more certain to feel more heartache, more often.
Here are some time tested ways to increase your odds of experiencing more heartache in the future.
Shop for your next serious, healthy relationship partner in bars and clubs. Bars and clubs are mainly a hangout for men who aren't ripe to commit. Then be hurt that he is very interested in you and not the least bit interested in commitment.
Fall for an alcoholic or other hard drug addict. No one is more likely to lie to you, steal from you, betray you and abuse you verbally and physically. If mascochism is your name, then addicts are your best game. I'm not saying you can't find someone who does all those things and isn't an addict. You can. But only with addicts can you can truly count on some if not all of the above.
Or, maybe he doesn't have any addiction problem whatsoever, but he does: lie, cheat, or abuse.... Take it personally when a liar lies to you. Freak out when a cheater cheats on you and be shocked that an abuser hit you again. Just don't leave him.
Michael Vick isn't the only man who's mean to animals. If he's mean to an animal, you can count on him to be mean to you. There's many a wife abuser that will never hurt an animal, but there's damn few animal abusers that won't hurt a human.
Want to be hurt in a kinder, gentler way.... by all means believe you want a long term, serious, healthy, committed relationship and then busy yourself falling for guys that are married or gay or Larry Craig.
I can hear some of you hollering now, "But Lollie, I want a good man, a man that is single, interested in my gender, honest, not addicted to anything, faithful AND I still want more heartache!!! Isn't there any way for me to have it all?"
Yes Virginia, you can have a good man who will commit to you and yet still feel hurt a lot more and it's easy! Here's how...
Give him unsolicited advice so he feels like you think he's stupid. And / Or win more than 65% of the arguments so he feels emasculated. In no time at all he'll be giving you the cold shoulder and you'll be wondering if there's another woman.
There is no such thing as failure. We either get what we want, or we succeed in getting something else instead. I've never met a woman who acts like she hates men and or thinks men are beneath her who didn't seem to go out of her way to only choose men from the bottom of the barrel.
Wondering what you can do
to decrease heartache in your own love life?