Who was the last greatest love in your life before this one?
I sent this email question out to all of my clients: Who was the
greatest love in your life before this one? And what killed the relationship?
I got back a lot of fascinating answers. It's amazing how objective a more distant perspective can provide! I want to share with you mine, and also four of the answers that really grabbed me. Then I hope after you read them, you'll share your own story in the comments section here.
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First, my answer. The last greatest love in my life is Jerry.
He's a sweetheart and now my favorite ex boyfriend. :) Before him was Tim Dickson and Tim was in fact the absolute greatest love of my life. He was beautiful, great in bed, a hard worker, had a good and kind
heart, was an excellent step dad to my kids, he was funny and thought I
was the most fascinating woman on the planet. PMS killed that
relationship.
Years later I called him to apologize for what a bitch
I'd been. And he said the most perfectly Tim Dickson thing with utter
sincerity. He said, "Oh Lollie! You weren't that bad!" Yeah. Right. He'd come home from work and say something hateful like, "Hi, Honey. I'm home." and I would light into him!! Not that bad! Ha! Anyways, as I was
killing that relationship I had no idea men like Tim didn't grow
on trees. Live and learn. Tim died in a car wreck about ten years ago.
It didn't hit me hard cause I'd always thought he was just pausing here
on his way to heaven. All he'd done by dying was finally gotten to go
home.
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I killed my relationship with Steven, when it first began. i put myself
second to him and made choices based on what i thought he would have
liked. Sometimes i'd consult him and then id push for an answer when he
said he really didn't mind one way or the other, and other times i
didn't give any thought and would disappoint myself when i didn't get
the reaction i wanted from him. My expectations of this man were
different than the man he was and i didn't understand back then one
very important lesson. You can't change the man. That change has to
come from within, as long as it's not forced, i was impatient. i made a
bittersweet choice in being with him, a few lessons were learned,
unfortunately the hard way.
To
be honest I haven't had one yet, I thought i found one but he still
just ran away.........yet at almost 52 years old still believe that one
day i might get lucky and find the love of my life, MAYBE...
- Anonymous
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I
haven't had many great loves in my life. The greatest love before my
current greatest love was years and years ago and I have never
forgotten him. He was my first love and I was a senior in high
school. His name was Robbie and he was THE cutest guy in choir and
turned out to be my best friend and great love. Although he was in
choir, he needed some help singing, so I spent time with him every day
working with him on singing at lunch time in the little room under the
gym steps. We had so much fun together laughing and sharing our love
of music and drama. We would sit in his basement and listen to Donna
Summer and drive around town singing Pink Floyd's "The Wall" and "We
Are Family." Even though I barely understood love, I knew I loved
Robbie and have carried him in my heart always. After graduation,
Robbie and I grew apart and went our separate ways. He passed away as
a young man of pneumonia. I saw him one last time at his funeral and
his mother told me that he talked about me all the time and had
pictures of me hung in his room. I will never forget Robbie.
- Amy6933
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I
have only had 3 in my long life. My first greatest love , I married
and he loved me as much as his mother....& you don't have sex with
your mother so he had affairs until I found out and ended it. The
middle love and the last love both were addicted to sex so they had
affairs. None wanted to divorce me, said I was a great wife, best
friend and none ever wanted me to find out but God let me know. I guess
you can say I am selfish and don't like to share is what killed it. I
am not a jealous type and they all had jobs were they traveled. I need
alone time to work on my relationship with God so not have them at home
during the week was ok with me, as they say absence makes the heart
grow fonder. All three knew that that was a cardinal sin with me before
we got married. Kind'a weird. I almost started dating a 4th guy but
I found out he was addicted too before we crossed that path. I haven't
dated in 8 years because I don't trust my ability to see this trait in
a man and I am good with it.
Okay, there's the question and our answers.... now what's yours? :)
Who was the greatest love in your life 'before' this one (in other words before your current greatest love, or if there is no one at present, the one before your last great love?) And what killed the relationship?
I ask for that deeper in the past guy because I think we have a more objective perspective after we've fallen in love with someone new. And the answers so far sure make it seem like that's true.
Wondering what they're up to these days?
| Love & Relationships |
1/25/2010 |
rblock7 |
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Lollie was so completely accurate on this it is almost
scary, with a very complex issue she was able to
accurately tell me a person next move and they delivered
it like clockwork.
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1/22/2010 |
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1/21/2010 |
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