Readings are always a two way street and the responsibility of both client and advisor. Below I’ve written about some pointers to help you get a high quality reading from any Advisor you should choose.

These tips are based on my vast experience as both an Advisor and as a client who also gets readings.

But do NOTE that all I’ve written here does assume that the Advisor is a good psychic.

I: RELAX AND OPEN YOUR ENERGY

The more relaxed and open the client is, the better able the Advisor is to get good information. It is important to try to relax, be open and honest, and trust. Know that you are not just putting trust in the Advisor you are talking to, but you are showing your trust in Spirit and the Universe.

The reason that being opened, relaxed and trusting is important is two fold:

a: Spirit is VERY respectful and if the client is blocking something, then the Advisor will NOT “get” it because the client does not want it shown.

b: The more “closed” the client is, the less likely the Advisor is to get good, detailed and accurate information for them.

If you approach a reading with any Advisor in a “closed” or “untrusting” manner, ask yourself why? It is entirely possible that you sense the Advisor is not the one for you OR that you don’t want a reading at all, whether that’s conscious or subconscious.

A similar problem arises when a client calls an Advisor when they’re in an environment in which they don’t want to be over heard and are whispering. The more energy the Advisor is putting in to hearing the client, the less energy they’re putting into “getting” information. This is especially the case for Clairaudient Advisors. And the fact that the client is literally “blocking” being heard by those around them, has a similar effect to the general “blocking” I spoke of above.

In all of the above instances, it is not that it is impossible for the Advisor to read for you, we all will. But the client does decrease the quality of their reading in doing so.

Know that the client sets the tone of the reading much more so than does the Advisor. This is, after all, YOUR reading. The information is between you and Spirit. The Advisor is simply a channel between the two.

A colleague of mine once said, “It’s a simple analogy, I can paint your house but not if you don’t open the door and let me in”. ~ J. E.

II: CLARITY AND FOCUS:

Have a good idea of what exactly you are seeking information on. The more clear you are in your mind, the more clear the answers will be. Of course, it is always possible that Spirit will give information in addition to your questions. But your clarity helps immensely, at least to start the reading with.

During your reading try to stay focused on the topic and the reading itself. If your mind wanders a bit or you’re multitasking during the reading, it takes the Advisor out of the energy of the topic at hand. This is particularly true of Advisors who are empathic like me. Again, the same theme as the aforementioned, we (the Advisor) follow you (the client).

YOU are our link to the information you seek.

III: CALM AND OPEN MINDED:

In general, most Advisors are more effective in reading a client who is fairly calm. That is not to say don’t call when you’re upset. That is fine and perfectly understandable. But do understand that the Advisor is going to have to “get around” your emotional state in order to start reading for you.

We all have opinions and preconceived notions about the situations in our lives. That is human nature. To whatever extent is possible for you, try to put those opinions away during your reading. If you are thinking and speaking INTENTLY of your opinion, it is possible that the Advisor will pick up on that energy and simply mirror it back to you. That is NOT what you want. Regardless of your opinion, you still question it in your mind or you would not be asking Spirit for an answer. So try to put that aside.

I’ll give you an example because this is a concept that is a little more abstract. A client of mine recently phoned me about a man that she’s been seeing a short time and was recently intimate with. After their lovely night of intimacy, she did not hear from him for 2 days. She was just oh so certain he was blowing her off and was gone. She voiced that opinion to me long and loud and was very angry with him. Her opinion was NOT my read. My read was that nothing had changed for him and he’d be on the phone soon. He called that night and delivered roses the next day. GREAT!!! I was able to read her situation accurately despite her opinion and her anger. BUT more precious time had to be spent to get that information because I had to bypass her energy, very strong opinion, and what she was strongly putting out there. And I was not able to get details on him I might have otherwise gotten because she was blocking the road to that with her anger. Her concern and fear were understandable, but she did not help out the quality of her reading.

Of course, in any reading, all Advisors should be open to hearing your opinion and you should feel comfortable in stating it. Just be careful to not assert it so strongly that it blocks the road to truth. Stay open minded enough to possibly hear any information that may come through. Of course, we may very well find that your opinion is accurate. Just stay open minded during the reading.

IV: DURATION

Duration is almost completely the decision of the client. Most Advisors, to the extent possible, stay with the client on the phone as long as the client needs or wants.

However, and this is true of all Advisors, do not expect an immense amount from readings under 5 minutes.  That is not a lot of time for anyone to operate in and it is likely that the quality and accuracy of a reading is decreased when an Advisor is operating in a very short time line. This is most true of new clients to the Advisor or clients that call an Advisor very infrequently.

This does NOT typically apply to an Advisor’s regular clients that they know well. Any good Advisor can get into the energy of a regular client very quickly and be very accurate for them in under 5 minutes.

But with new clients, we are entering unchartered territory for us and we have to figure out our way for you. That’s not to say you cannot get a decent reading in a couple of minutes but it’s simply not as likely so adjust your expectations accordingly.

That said, BEWARE of Advisors that attempt to enlongate phone calls, talk of themselves and their lives without your having asked them, avoid answering your questions, and go into areas in the reading that you don’t wish to have read or have not asked about. This is unacceptable and it is NOT for the Advisor to spend your money!!!!!

Similarly, clients who talk for two minutes, put the advisor on hold to recharge their account with additional money, then talk again for two minutes, then recharge their account, then talk for 2 minutes and so on, are NOT doing themselves any favors in getting a good reading. The Advisor is attempting to energetically link into you. So when you go back and forth every couple of minutes you are disturbing that “link” and risking declining the quality of the reading. It’s totally understandable to attempt to manage your money, but in most instances you’re better off loading the account for a few more minutes duration instead of going back and forth every couple of minutes.

After all of that, it is TOTALLY up to the Advisor to take it from there!!! For the client, we’re really only talking about your mind set, mood and energy going into the call. It’s simply Universal Law, we attract the very energy we are putting out there. That Law applies to getting readings as well.

I hope many find this helpful and in incorporating these tips in your readings find that you enjoy your readings that much more. Afterall, that’s what it’s supposed to be all about!!!!

Much Love and Light to you, Lyrica