~~CARRYING SOMETHING WITH YOU WHEN YOU GO~~
When we leave a relationship.. whether it be our idea or the other's.. when all the stages are passed through and we come out at the other side... We carry all the good traits that came from the past relationships in our lives in order to make the next love in our lives better.
Whether the things we carry are considered baggage or attributes is completely up to us.
So I say it's ok to cry tears, its ok to be angry and bitter just little,
that way when we get on the other side of heartache...
when we reach that since of contentment again , we can accept the fact that .."Wow.. I loved that person and they taught me to be stronger in so many ways." even if the lesson we learn is only that you can live after a heartache then it will be easier not to live in fear of losing your next love or being fearfull of loving again because of the pain. 'cause believe me .. the pain is well worth the connections we get.
Mama's quote of the day: " I HAVE NEVER LOVED ANYONE THAT DIDN'T MAKE ME CRY AT SOMETIME."