I have been having conversations with my ex boyfriend's sister.. We have been friends for 20 years.. and she has kept me abreast of what he does in his life... to me, at this point it's like a never ending television drama... I think about the 6 years he and i spent together.. and that at the ripe wonderful age of 44 and he's 46.. I am so glad that i have moved past all that dramatics.. when she speaks about him he is still pulling the same (don't tell anyone i'm here) routine, that he pulled when we were together. He thinks avoiding a conversation is the best way to move forward in life. I had to make my own closing on our relationship. and well I must conclude that...Yes... I have grown past him. MSCHERRYTWO