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~~THE BACK UP GIRL~~

~~I have been nice and given everything to this relationship.~~

Maybe it's time for some self reclamation.


~~WHAT A SHOCK!! ~~


I finaly relized I am the back up girl... I have been reading this book by "Sherry Argov." I now know that I am the back up girl..... what the heck?.. I was totaly shocked by this revelation. I think her book" Why Men Love @#$%$^&" is helping me see that I have not been making myself the priority.


Sometimes its better to think about yourself first in the beginning that way you dont have to retrain yourself during the relationship. Our heaven help us if the relationship ends...


MAMA'S Quote of the DAY: " I  learned along time ago, never give'm everything."

Published Saturday, November 03, 2007 7:34 AM by MSCHERRYTWO

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# re: ~~THE BACK UP GIRL~~

Saturday, November 03, 2007 6:36 AM by lsb
I too just read "Why Men Marry B!tches"...very enlightening....on another break where the guy I've been seeing has disappeared again for 2 months, I realize he's been showing me ZERO respect.  Part of what hit me in the gut was her saying that if he's really interested, he will find time to contact you...this summer it was 3 months he was gone...now it's 2.  Ouch.  I need to stand up for myself.

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