THE STATE OF WORRY...
THINKING WAY TOO MUCH...
I listened to my companion last night ... he had a bit of advice... on why we go crazy with worry, that worry that comes from wondering if they love us as much as we love them or what they are thinking about... when i get in that mode it actualy has a physical reaction for me ... I feel sick to my tummy.
anyway, he tells me that, cherry, constantly wondering what another person thinks and feels about you can be to much for one mind to handle. thats like putting 2 gallons of milk into a one gallon jug. it over flows ... well it's kinda the same thing with our thoughts and emotions. men seem to handle thoughts and emotions so much easier .. because we try to stay focused on the tasked at hand. Women seem to fill up there minds with thoughts of others so much that they become emotionally overwhelmed. trying to put two minds into one brain.
it's a man's way of thinking, but for some reason i found some insight with his words. if we worry so much about what he is feeling for us our emotional quota gets full really quickly and it just causes us to shut down and turn to worry. when if we can just let things ride alittle ... by the end of the day or the week, things and feelings come to light on there own.
MAMA'S QUOTE OF THE DAY: "REMEBER, LAUGHIN'S CATCHIN'"