Making the most of your psychic reading
I've been grateful to find time to come back to doing psychic readings in my spare time, especially when the feeling strikes. However, I have received many clients who are looking for the quick-fix, instant gratification answer. I want to note right now that although your questions can certainly be answered and predictions, given the current energy, can be made in a few minutes, a quality reading is hard to give during that time. Why? Because a quality reading isn't just about what the energy says right now, it's about assisting the client on his/her path for the highest good--whether that's providing guidance in how to let go or teaching a client techniques in attracting what he/she desires in to his/her reality. The answers to the questions are really, just the baking pan. It's when a client is give these extra ingredients that he/she can make a cake and ultimately, put the cherry on top.
I actually get very irritated when people come to me, expecting a reading in under 5 minutes time:
**First, it creates this misconception that we are powerless and everything is set in stone. The prediction I give you is all that will happen, so if it's not what you want then you better give up hope. No, this is not the case. Free will changes everything and you DO have the power to work with God, the Universe or Spirit in creating your life. Pray it out, make lists... It's easy to be lazy and rely on a prediction. Work is the only thing rewarded in this life.
**Second, it can be difficult for the reader to access everything you want to hear during that time. Sometimes I channel and the more important messages aren't even what you want to hear about. Spirit isn't Burger King, serving it up YOUR way. Sometimes the messages are more important and greater than "Will he come back?". Consider this.
**Lastly, we have this desire for instant gratification. If you hear what you want, oh goody! You got what you wanted. Yes, it's exciting when good things happen. However, what I have learned is that nothing is rewarded more than hard work. After a series of "oh goodies" you may begin to wonder, "Why is all this bad stuff happening?" but you never make time to do your work to turn it around. The result is blaming others, even God and the Universe, for the hardships.
Psychic readings can be fun, but an ethical reader will not keep you hooked. He/She will keep you moving forward on your path. I used to get readings about once/month. Then, I learned techniques to attract what I wanted into my life. I also learned to be accountable, let go, stop dwelling, live in the present and have faith. I have had a few readings in the past year, which focused on me: "What can I do?" "Why do I feel this way" "What am I attracting?" I still receive energy cleansings to assist in understanding the core beliefs (blocks) I have which prevent me from maximizing my own potential. Also, I have learned that the less readings I get from others, the more heightened my intuition is for myself. I feel the same happens for clients--we're all human, right? It takes time and work to access that intuition, but once you get it, it's a gold mine!
To make the most of your reading, epecially a reading with me:
1.) Have clear direct and specific questions. General questions just bring a ton of information, not allowing me to tell you exactly what you are asking.
2.) Be calm and do not be under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
3.) Be open to the messages you receive. They might not make sense, so ask for clarification. If I get clarification, I will tell you. The truth is, we are not always meant to know everything and often readings make sense after the fact.
4.) Ask, "Can this outcome change?" and ask "How?".
5.) Do not psychic surf. Asking Spirit the same question over and over again can, and most likely, will result in mixed messages. Part of having faith is letting go.
6.) Let the reading go: Do not focus on the who, when and how. Holding onto predictions creates resistance and this resistance can either prolong an outcome or diminish the liklihood of the outcome.
7.) If you've had a reading in the past 24-48 hours, do not contact me. Our energies interact all the time. It's best to give your energy time to regroup and reground before seeking a reading.
8.) Interupt if the reading isn't going in the direction you want. Speak up! I channel and have a tendency to interupt the client. Interupt me back. I do not mind.
9.) Focus the reading on you. I will always look at other people involved but I prefer to focus the reading on the client.
10.) Do not expect to get a quality reading from me in under 5 minutes.