Many people find themselves in the same type of relationships over and over again.  They find themselves in the same dead end jobs. They find themselves struggling over and over again over issues that come easily to others.

There are many reasons why one adopts these feelings of unworthiness. Everything from sexual abuse to constant societal rejection.

When this happens people tend to think that this is the way life is, or it's their lot in life. It's not true. I have seen people with less intergenuity, less education, less attractiveness and less personality get everything that they want. They don't have these issues. Why is this? In truth, they feel as if they deserve the best life has to offer them.  They feel worthy of receiving. When things don't work for them, they don't stick in there and try to fix it, they move on and look for "greener pastures."

How can you capture the feelings of worthiness?

1.   Tell yourself in the mirror how very worthy you are. In the mirror, as self talk. Even tell others that you are worthy or that you deserve something. I.E. I deserve this promote and I'm certainly worthy of accepting it.

2.    If relationships are bringing you down and they don't serve you ultimate good. Get rid of that relationship. Romantic, friendships, whatever. You are worthy of better.

3.   Accept that "God doesn't make junk." You're a part of God or the intelligent force that created us.

4.   Think of yourself as a little kid. Can you imagine telling this little kid that they aren't worthy. Is this what you wanted for yourself when you were a child. Get to the point of worthiness for that "inner child". (Now go hung a tree).

5.   This is what works for me. My son's mother deserves the best. It's kind of a strange thing to says or a twisted way of being worthy, but it does work. As this (dog's, cat's) child's, (whatever works here...) parent, I deserve the best. I see this as Nicholas's Mum deserves the very best, because she has to give Nicholas the very best.

As soon as you get to the point where you do feel worthy, things start showing up in you life that you only once dreamt of. This is part of receiving what you are trying to manifest.