With all of the books, films, speakers, seminars and televisions lately dedicated to manifesting what you want in your life, there seems to be something missing.
Many of my clients and I have been able to manifest clarity. Many times the clarity keeps coming and coming until we say, "enough is enough". However, people seem to continually struggle with just basically getting what they want.
Below is a bit of a clearing house of some of the authors and literature I have used to understand manifesting:
Some of the authors that have discussed this manifestation, include, but are not limited to, Wayne Dyer, Marianne Williamson, Bob Proctor, Deepak Chopra, The Teachings of Abraham (Ester and Jerry Hicks), Fred Alan Wolf, Jack Canfield, Neale Donald Walsch and the list goes on and on.
Some of my favourite books about manifestation are: Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting (Lynn Grabhorn), The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent (Teachings of Abraham), What Do You Really Really What, Pulling Your Own Strings (both Dyer), The Sucess Principles(Canfield), Mind Into Matter (Wolf), The Self Aware Universe (Amit Goswami), Creating Health, Perfect Health, and Quantum Health ( all Chopra), and You Can Heal Your Life (Louise Hay).
Returning to the original premise of this blog, with all of this I haven't unlocked the secret of manifesting? Actually it is in each and every one of these books and each and everyone of the authors have touched on it. It's so simple that we glazed right over it.
It's simply feeling good.
That's right, that's all there is to it. The problem is that we live in a world that can continually rattle us. Once we get into a state of constantly feeling good, everything flows. One loses that extra weight, the business opportunities flow, the money starts coming, romantic possibilities start to show up and generally good things start to happen. However, once we allow something minor or major upset us, our manifestation abilities take a downward spiral.
So what are some helpful steps to start with to get us past this?
1. Realise that no one is in charge of you happiness. If you long of something or someone, it is not the obtaining of that person that will ultimately make up complete. I have said this once and I will say it again...It is bewitching to believe that one person is entirely in charge of one's happiness.
2. Understand that some relationship is out there for everyone. Don't believe in lack of the possibilities.
3. Allow yourself not to get upset about what other people do, to you or in general. If someone else choices to own a gun, does getting upset about it change it? If someone is horribly rude or says mean things, does allowing it to dig at you change it? If the president of the United States isn't doing what you want he/she to do, are you making any change in it if you focus how mad that person is making you? NO. Get over it.
4. Be FOR things, not against things you don't like: I am for freedom, I am for peace, I am for prosperity of all, I am for loving kindness towards humanity, I am for the preservation of our history, etc.
5. Focus on the fact that money is nothing more than a flow of energy exchange. Get over your jealousies.
6. Get over you need to judge others or to create an opinion of others and what their thought processes or actions are. You must find something else to do. Focus on your own development.
7. Bliss has no room for righteous ignition.
8. Don't ask how things should show up, don't micromanifest, try to open the field of infinite possibilities. Just trust.
9. Get away from television shows, films and radio that ignite your anger engine.
10. Ask, believe, expect, live your life as if you want is already there and be happy about it.
11. Get over not being perfect in the eyes of society. If you need to lose a bit of weight, or you haven't finished a degree or you haven't the perfect job or house, make an action plan and feel as if you already have it! Be content in what you are and where you are going (of course, as if it's already occurring-because it is).
12. Calm you mind down and take transcendental mediation or some helpful mediation techniques or yoga. Indeed it is an unquiet mind that is cannot focus on being happy or joyful. The "committee in our head" needs to be quieted. It's part of reprogramming thought processes which are hard-wired into our head (or the neuro net programming) as spoken about in What the Bleep Do We Know.
I have learned that all of that time with Transcendental Mediation, the one thing his Holiness Maharishi Mahesh Yogi has been trying to teach us is calming down our mind to be at peace with ourselves. That's when things show up in our lives. After exposure to this all of my life, I now understand perfect peace, being blissful and the ability of getting what you want. By the way, I got this yesterday after going back to mediation! LOL!
A quiet mind brings peace to the individual and the ability to manifest and be joyful. A hundred quiet minds lowers the crime rate in large US cities.*
* www.t-m.org.uk/research/46.shtml