Graduation 2008
Everywhere cards are sold you will see the "Graduate Section". Hallmark is having a party, the balloons are standing tall at the check out counters in the grocery stores, accessories are everywhere. Four years ago my oldest graduated from High school with honors. I stood in awe of her with tears and runny mascara. She decided to attend a local college so this some what eased my pain of loosing her. Of course I know I could never loose either of my children but being the Mommy that I am the terror of her leaving town was one I was not ready for. She lives local and the funny thing is I don't see her as often as you would expect. She is defenitely her own woman. She is strong, stubborn, talented and beautiful.
Now it's four years later and my son the youngest, is getting ready to graduate with honors. The difference is that he will be leaving home to attend a State University. I expect to wallow in self pity for a few years. (LOL) Granted, he will only be four hours away. For me, that is terrifying. This kid never ceases to amaze me with his tenacity, talent, wisdom and attitude towards life. God has truly blessed me. The empty nest syndrome is just around the corner. Regardless, I could not be more proud of either one of my children. When he graduates I will stand and whistle as they call his name with tears of pride and that fimiliar runny mascara.
They were once so tiny and helpless. There was a time when I was the greatest thing since sliced bread. Now, they have grown up. I know they will always need me, it's just different and this is all very normal. Time goes by very quickly, it's very precious as our children are. So enjoy them as they grow and when it's time we have to let them go so they can live the lives they are meant to live.
Here is a toast to all who are graduating! Here is a toast to my children; "If God made you he must be in love with me".
Congratulations to the graduates of 2008!
Always,
Michelle