Where is your self worth?
Where is your self worth?
I believe we teach others how to treat us. We will allow only what we allow. If someone is walking all over us and we keep letting them do it, we are allowing it.
This seems to happen a lot because we may often feel we love the other so much, they will stop the antics.
NO! You cannot make anyone do anything, they have to want to change themselves.
Again, where is your self worth?
I once lost mine. In fact maybe a few times through the years. I lost self respect. Now, I see where I went wrong. My fault was letting others take advantage of me because I cared about them.
Whether you are romantically engaging, family relationships or friends, its not okay to allow people to take advantage. It's only okay if you want that and most people do not.
If you start to wonder why certain things keep happening, think what did you allow? Some circumstances do not pertain to this.
I will tell you from experience and my career, it all begins with what you will allow into your life and often who.
If you want a great partner, be one. Then make sure you are ready to draw up some boundaries as to what is acceptable and not.
When we value, honor and love ourselves we do not allow others to take advantage. We see the value we bring and worth we have to offer. If they cannot see that, who's problem would that be? ( Answer = there's)
People who see that you are a self respecting individual are less likely to play games. They know you are less likely to engage. You will draw more positive like minded individuals to you.
No one was put on this earth to be a rug mat. We all experience that at different times. However, learn from it as I have.
If a man cannot see my value and inner beauty, he is not worth my time nor efforts. Outer beauty is always something that will fade with time as we grow old. You can be the prettiest one on block but not be the brightest bulb in the box. You are not stupid, you just want to be loved and accepted. Who doesn't?
Value yourself or no one else will. We all want to change our looks, pants size and so forth. That is great to an extent. So if you want to change how you are treated then treat yourself with the same love and respect you should treat another and value who you are.