Quote of the Day
“You get the best effort from others not by lighting a fire beneath them,
but by building a fire within.”
Bob Nelson
When we build each other up, communicate effectively, and love one another we often give a lift to the soul. If you are feeling down about a relationship you are in, take a long look at the pattern you are establishing with them. Is there a lot of nagging, whining and pleading going on? Have you been taking each other for granted? Often we may even want to build a fire under someone to get them on the right track, and we feel we need to control their actions to bring about our own happiness. We can not control the actions of another, but we can maintain our own interaction. We can take a look at our own intention. How do you intend to build a fire within your loved one?
Sometimes we can build fires through silence. No, I don't mean the silent treatment. I mean touching your loved one and going for a walk holding hands. Expressing affection through the touch of your hands, a smile, and just allowing a quietness within. Bringing passion into a relationship requires very little talking. We can kiss, hug, cuddle, and caress our loved one.
We can also build a fire through positive communication. Giving thanks and showing gratitude. Expressing our desires for the future in a positive manner. Helping build another's dreams and uplifting them by giving assurance, and again promoting positive thinking when they lack confidence.
Today is a new day. I wish for you an inner fire that burns bright and strong.
God bless,
Serenity Star