Coffee Chat Saturday . . . No B.S.
When I choose a psychic, I want one who is accurate with no sugar coating. I really don't want the B.S.!
Of course my heart wants to hear that the guy who jilted me regrets it all and will be crawling back with chocolate, and of course I want to hear that my current path is leading to adventure beyond my wildest dreams . . . I mean who doesn't want to hear that?
There's a difference between my manifesting the beauty I want to see and my asking a question of a psychic about what I need to hear. Usually if I'm asking about love life, I'm either in a little bit of denial about what is actually going on in that realm, or I need sincere guidance out of a confusing maze of emotions.
A psychic who gently reminds me that I'm clinging to control and need to self focus and redirect is helping me. He shows me where I'm heading down a path of more suffering and how I can take a detour.
I once had a psychic reading when I was in the midst of sincere heartbreak and misery. The woman thought she was helping, or maybe she only wanted glorious feedback . . .but I've never heard more b.s. about how much regret, how he was so trapped by his new love that he couldn't even call me . . . but he cries all the time over the loss blah blah blah.
I listened to her and absorbed it all, like it was a bag of oreos I couldn't stop gorging on! After the call, I couldn't believe I'd spent all that money on b.s!!
What I needed was a gifted psychic who was willing to take on my pain and steer me in the right direction. Yes an empowering conversation would have 'done me good', but one which leaves me heading for a journal to release emotions or to the kitchen to fix healthy meals for my kids. One that assists me with reseting the joy butten in a way I can control.
We can only control ourselves, not the hearts of those who hurt us.
We can send love and affirm our "loveableness", but we can't make anyone come back to us who has decided not to.
We can forgive them and set ourselves free in the process, but we can't make them suffer along with us while we're waiting for the call that never comes.
We can pray for our love to return and place this request on the alter of God- that for this person or someone better to appear, but we can't control the outcome by dictating the heart of our love.
We simply can't!
It serves me to speak with a psychic who breaks this to me gently, but with no b.s.