We each have spiritual cords, like umbilical cords, which attach from us to someone we love. Cords we've created over time with someone. From you to him, from him to you. From her to you and from you to her. Often many of them.
You created a cord when you made love, when you laughed at the joke at dinner one night, when you danced together, camped together, IM'd, and talked on the phone.
When you go through a break up, it's so very painful because you feel that other person. It IS real. Some folks are better aT ignoring the tug while others go bonkers trying not to call, not to reach out and communicate when they logically know it's not the thing to do.
A very effective way of releasing some of the 'out of control' feeling of wanting so much to connect with a person who obviously has pulled away at this time, is to do a cord cutting and pulling technique that has worked miracles for many people.
(Use this for helping to heal a broken heart! Even when there's a chance the relationship will rekindle, this technique releases you from pain in the meantime. This empowers you and sets you free in many beautiful ways).
Before you sleep picture the person.
Send all your judgments and thoughts away and simply FEEL your love and your connection. Start to see this connection as a cord (like an umbilical cord) that you are attached together by, from each other's solar plexus.
Ask/sense which way the energy is flowing within that cord. Is the energy moving out from you to this person or from this person to you? The person who is receiving cord energy is often the one who isn't feeling heartbroken at the moment. You will sense if your energy is 'all mixed up' with his.
Ask for angelic assistance, and support, for what you are to do next:
CUT AND PULL OUT THE CORD. SEE IT CLEARLY IN YOUR MINDS' EYE AND CONSCIOUSLY DISCONNECT HERE. YOU'LL FEEL INSTANT RELIEF FROM SPIRITUAL HEART PAIN IF YOU DO THIS CORRECTLY.
Take out your imaginary scissors or an ax; what ever method you can visualize the best, and cut that cord between you. Pull it out by it's roots. Send this person's end of the cord back to him/her with love and say while feeling the love you share together (even if you have rage and anger, you can find the love to feel for this part, though briefly; three times:
I forgive you,
I forgive me,
I forgive us
These aren't just words you say. FEEL the release and the truth of the words. Make it so.
Ask God/dess and your angelic guidance to help you FEEL the truth of these powerful words. Pray for strength and support as you release this person today/tonight, totally onto the alter of God.
Wrap yourself up in light and love, and protect the end of your cord with love.
Every time this person comes to mind repeat the above words of forgiveness and release this tie, cut the cord and pull the cords again.
EVERY TIME from this point on.
You have placed this relationship in the arms of God/dess, on the alter where it will be worked with. You are willing now, to allow time and guidance to bring back this relationship, or offer you one which is even better.
Allow your soul to say, "I surrender. Help me heal"
This release helps free your tense and wound up pain, and it empowers you.
By clearing a space in your life you allow NEW to enter. You can unfreeze now!
((One moment, one hour, and one day at a time!!!))
You are a divine and beautiful spirit.
Light Always!
Fawn