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Parent & Teen

This  worried soul of mine needs to hear other parents tell their possibly heartbreaking (now funny I hope!) experiences with a teen child. 

Do you have one?

A true tale of a teen daughter or son? OR a true story of something you went through as a teen 'back then' . . . this will help me so much.

I've been going through a difficult time very recently- with my suddenly rebellious teen daughter -who up to this year we have always been so close.

I'm worried about the choices she's making and the direction she's choosing.

Mama bear is going through it right now and all your ideas, stories, thoughts, experiences, encouragements . . . well they would sure help me gain perspective right now.

I want to say to myself, "Wow! At least it's not that bad!" or "Gee, I wish it were only that" or laugh and hope I'll laugh at this one day. 

Or identify, remember, & keep the faith.

Or, if you are psychic and detached from my personal situation, maybe some intuitive insight I can go on? 

Thanks in advance for taking some time to share. I trust you'll know just what to write.

Light,

Fawn

 Story of 'Mama Bear' & 'Beautiful Bird' who is testing her Wings!

Published Sunday, June 03, 2007 3:39 PM by Ms Claritynow
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# re: Teenage and Parent Stories, Rebellion, Tough Love, Happy Endings, Ongoing Adventures? Favor Please. @ Sunday, June 03, 2007 2:00 PM

Dear Ms:
My heart goes out to you and I do so relate.  As a Mother of 9, I have been through the rebellious stages in the teen years and thankfully they are behind me.  I know that you need our prayers right now for kids can tear your hearts out with one scathing glance at that age.  I have many clients that are doing "battle" with their teenagers and I have found that the only thing that I could do is remain true to my values and be consistent with them.  If you do not agree with what they are doing just consistently set boundaries that you will allow and consequences that are appropriate if they push the boundaries.  I know that sounds simplistic but kids need boundaries and they need to know you cannot be forced to change your value system.  They are little manipulators at that age and will try your very soul.  I will keep you in my prayers Ms for I know you are doing exactly the right thing.

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: Teenage and Parent Stories, Rebellion, Tough Love, Happy Endings, Ongoing Adventures? Favor Please. @ Sunday, June 03, 2007 2:17 PM

Thank you Rosie. I hope I'm doing something right. I feel out of control (there's little I can do in this circumstance but wait and see the outcome - I think I've done all I can) -worried at the moment. It's rough. Wow! Mom of nine!!! I've raised her and little brother as a single mom. She's 18 and though still a junior in high, legally exersizing her 'right' to freedom currently and her choices are concerning. Long story. I appreciate so much your response!

Ms Claritynow

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