Knowing exactly what you want is 90% of your victorious path toward getting IT!
The other 10% lies in the positive focus you keep up- KNOWING it will happen & trusting that this or something better will come through for you.
The secret is not to cancel out this powerful creative force of manifesting what you want, by 'worrying' over the fact that you might not get it!
There's nothing to lose by joyfully intending that your dream will come true. This is why a vision board is so very effective when building a dream life -
To SEE your desire as if it's already so- is to communicates to the forces that be that there is no doubt about it, these seeds of your desire are planted and being watered.
With a vision board you see, feel, be & ARE it.
With every step you take, your mind, body and soul should joyfully have you walking toward IT.
When a thought comes like, "IT"S NOT HERE YET . . . OH NO! Maybe it won't happen." This slows the process down.
If a psychic has told you they see you in a dream home within five months and you do nothing other than sit and wait for this to happen . . . this slows the process down!
Some folks are under the impression that if a psychic predicts something will happen and by a certain time, that the creative work for them is over. This is a huge mistake because the psychic predictions are made based on the current path at the time of the reading!
Another mistake when creating a dream is to remain narrow about WHO, WHAT, HOW, & WHEN.
Confusing because you're told over and over, "BE SPECIFIC!".
Both are true, but let's break it down:
When creating, be specific about what you want as it relates to the joy you feel in having it. For example, you want a really great job with good money and wonderful environment, doing what you do best; and feeling like you're moving ahead.
Focus on this FEELING of having it. BASK in the glow of feeling what it's like to have it all. Enjoy this fantasy and then let it go, trusting it will come to you.
Don't entertain worries that it won't occur; simply let it go and send thanks to God/dess that your wonderful job WILL come.
If you are determined to only get that job at Crab Orchard picking apples and every other apple orchard sucks, then you won't be open to Rooster Ray's Orchard when that door opens and you may miss the boat!
The same applies to anything you want, including a child . . . for example, remaining open to the route in which a child may appear in your life: Have you checked the adoption path or looked into foster care?
Have you considered all your options?
Your primary focus is on how it FEELS to BE a mom or a dad - with a child who is meant to be with you.
Leave the rest to God/dess because your job is to open yourself up to allowing what you want - IN.
Yes! Yes I have personal examples!! :-)
Here's one -
Once upon a time, years ago I felt SO trapped by debt because my car had depreciated and the payments were wiping me out! I couldn't sell it and pay it off :-(
My job and home had changed recently, leaving me feeling poor and unable to keep up.
My dear friend Minnie suggested that I write over and over and over, hundreds of times until I believed it with all my heart:
"I am out of debt. All debt is gone. I'm clear and free of all debt" etc. and not stop until I believed, felt & WAS this.
Then I was to send out thanks with trust IT WAS SO, and then let my attachment to it go.
I did this before bed that night - and went to sleep with a smile on my face, KNOWING I was out of debt. It FELT great.
The next day as I walked into work a woman came up to me and asked, "Was that your car parked out front?"
"WAS that my car?" I repeated back to her.
Lo and behold, a teenager with no insurance had slammed his dad's cadilac into my legally parked car.
In that instant my car was totalled - and my insurance then paid the car off (with a little help from my grandmother!)
I was debt free!
I had created IT; leaving the details/method up to God/dess.
Play around with this way of creating - and have FUN!
Here's a second example:
When I bought my condo I wanted some deck furniture but didn't care if it was brand new. In fact, I LOVE yard sales and flea markets so decided to play.
Before going out & hitting the yard sales, I wrote down exactly what I wanted, which was a set of deck furniture which would be inexpensive and fit my needs. I also included that they'd be transported to my home and the whole deal would be 'as a gift'.
I went to the first yard sale and nothing, but on the way home took a different route and THERE was my furniture. A man was placing a table and four chairs on the curb and taping a FOR SALE sign on them. I pulled over and asked how much.
"Twenty five dollars".
"I'll take! But I have no way to get them home."
I'll bring them to you in my pick up truck"
So within an hour I had my furniture.
Done :-)
To play this game and be good at it, practice at least once a week.
For example, NAME WHAT YOU WANT and then go on your quest to find it. Don't say to yourself, "I'm probably not going to find it . . . it's too much of a long shot"
Say, "I'm off on an adventure!" and go about your business EXPECTING to find it.
Don't fret over timing or anything. If it doesn't happen, smile to yourself, KNOWING it will find it's way to you.
EXPECT A MIRACLE.
Light!
Fawn