~~~~~~~~~~~~~~YOUR SOUL PURPOSE~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
It’s tricky to understand how one can create desires by vibrating at a frequency of already having and enjoying what is desired, yet NOT attract back to oneself a SPECIFIC relationship that is missing and wanted.
In other words, controlling specific outcomes of another person’s behavior in a relationship isn’t guaranteed you.
You are vibrating at a certain level of this relationship and that person is NOT at the same level. Like attracts like and you're going to get what you want (the energy you put out attracts the same right back!) but might to suprised to find . . . that specific someone isn't resonating w/you at the same level!!!
Last night at work, a co worker and I had a conversation about this while discussing our teenage children:
You have a soul; that person has a soul, you both have free will.
Not controlling the outcome of a relationship is frustrating, maddening, heart breaking and lots of tormenting things if one doesn’t understand a soul purpose.
You have come to Earth to grow spiritually by putting love into action in this physical plane through conscious and dedicated effort.
You grow spiritually, by leaps and bounds, when you allow the true process of a relationship to unfold and reveal to you what you are both here to learn from the situation.
Often the biggest lesson we are to learn is the power of LETTING GO and FORGIVING.
Yes, there’s incredible power in the act of allowing a relationship to take a form which it is meant to have - and then deciding to learn & grow from it; with no ‘guilt tripping’ the self (YES YOU GUILT TRIP YOURSELF!!!!).
Children are here to teach their folks a lesson or two just as parents are here to teach them a few things. Teenage children, a special breed of young adult, put us through a period of accelerated learning that we can’t escape because of the bond of love and concern we’ve developed.
Realizing that our deepest connections are keys to our SOUL PURPOSE, frees us from the torment of needing to control every little thing about the relationship.
What we DO have control of is enough to keep us busy for a thousand Earth life times:
-WHAT WE CHOOSE TO THINK.
-WHERE & HOW WE DIRECT OUR ENERGY TO CREATE OUR REALITY.
-WHEN TO SURRENDER, LET GO AND LET GOD/DESS (TRUST)
-ALLOWING OUR SOUL PURPOSE TO GUIDE
You can transform bitter thoughts of a person who hasn’t come through for you - to one of gratitude that this person exists to show you how to connect more deeply with YOURSELF.
Ultimately, it’s all a learning process.
We are part of a divine LOVING plan, always and forever connected to God/dess Source; immortal and pure.
Our physical form changes here on earth, our relationships change forms; & our souls are wonderful, resilient, ever youthful alway GROWING transformers.
To really KNOW this . . . allows you to release fear and shine LIGHT on your soul purpose.
To really KNOW this . . . allows you to release the need to control someone who is hurting you; and shine LIGHT on that person’s soul purpose.
FREEDOM ( a soul’s natural state of being!)
TRUST (you’re safe, divine and loved)
ALLOW (there really IS a divine plan!)
LET GO (forgiving yourself sets you free; forgiving another lets you GO)
DIRECT YOUR THOUGHTS (*feeling follows thought; creation follows feeling)
GRATITIDE (attracts to you what you love and desire)
SHINE LIGHT (purifies & heals)
SOUL PURPOSE (you!)
LOVE