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The four levels of Attraction
Physical ~ Emotional ~ Spiritual ~ Mental
 
Which level is most important for you? What kind of relationship do you want to have in your life? How do you live your life? Body, heart, spirit or head first?
 
Many people are physical attraction first - and if that connection is really strong, it can make us forget that to be truly happy in a relationship, we need more. Chemistry is important but, eventually you'll need to talk to the person, too - right?! :) 
 
Have you ever seen someone and felt that you really wanted to know them? That they were supposed to be in your life? That's a more spiritual/karmic relationship. Now, you can also have connection on a mental, emotional or physical level at the same time but, the overwelming sense of wanting to know the person makes it a spiritual choice. Sometimes this is the most confusing one.
 
A mental connection can present itself in good conversations, having things in common and being able to laugh together because you understand eacother. Usually, in my experience, mental and physical connections are the easiest to understand and fun!
 
Finding an emotional connection to someone is good but, we tend to find out about the emotional connection after we already have one of the other levels going on. Most often it will start as a physical attraction and move into an emotional one.
 
Think about yourself for a moment - which level do you live your life at? Which are you attracting? We can find out alot about ourselves by looking at who we choose to have as friends.
 
Take a moment to look at the levels above and see what fits best for you - and then work on playing up your best features so you attract the partner of your dreams! For example, if you want to attract a partner who is spiritual and loving then it is time for you to make sure you are living a spiritually fulfilling life, from your heart - following your dreams.
 
If you want a partner who you can always have fun with, joke with and is passionate then make sure you are talking to everyone and making time in your day to laugh and be positive!
 
Looking for a physical connection first is easy to do but, to be happy long term, you need to connect on another level too - which one is best for you?  
 
Why not take some time today to ask yourself these questions and set yourself on the right course for love!!
 
Blessings,
PandoraP
 
  
 

Published Thursday, March 17, 2011 12:43 PM by PandoraP

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