Bryn C. Collins has a wonderful book dealing with this creature - "THE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE" individual - and WOW - I will seek to share some of her insights and explain and help us all guard again tangling with this type of person.  There really isn't much one can do to convert the emotionally unavailable individual - particularly if he or she is not evolved enough to (1) admit they have an issue and (2) get some help for its cure.  So, let's all cease being Florance Nightingale's and stop trying to heal this pitiful soul - particularity to our own detriment.  It isn't worth it - the cost to ourselves is way to high - and it really is an essentially and great waste of precious time.  So when you run up on one of these fools and there are NINE count them NINE variations on this theme - two things you should do immediately: (1) "Run Forrest Run" and (2) "Run Simba Run Away And Never Look Back." 

I'll do a continuing Series to explain in detail these problematic persons - but for this first Blog on the subject - I'll just give you the list.  I bet we all know one or more of these types of folks and have "peed and cried" many a night 'cause we just couldn't understand what the he** was wrong with them. 


Here goes: 

THE LIST OF THE NINE TYPES OF "EMOTIONAL UNAVAILABILITY"
  1. "Romeos and Romiettes"
  2. "Indiana Jones"
  3. "Tens and Other Trophies"
  4. "Mama's Boys and Daddy's Girls"
  5. "'Holics"
  6. "Emotional Einsteins"
  7. "The Ones in the Mirror"
  8. "Eels and Other Slippery Critters"
  9. "James Bonds"

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