Attracted to Car Crash Love?
Like Car Crash Love?
Whether he is shiny and sexy, or a Ford heavy duty……watch out when the “Car Crash Energy” is the quality you look for in him, and not his spirit and soul. Maybe you begin to Shake when you meet, a vibration of almost danger and excitement throbbing within you. Are you feeling the thrill of fright and flight for your life? Is it truly just the feeling of desire? Because here is what happens:
- You accept “friends with benefits”, or questionable standards.
- You tell yourself that you won’t let yourself get Too involved
- You notice the tremor you felt with him, is in the eyes of other women too.
- Impending feelings of future hurt shake you….warn you….but you ignore them and go for the ride.
- And then the Car Crash happens!
- You catch him in a sickening act of love making with another, or worse.
- You find out his fantasies run on the sick side…..but stay any way.
- You hurt, cry, phone constantly…..and it feels horribly good somehow.
- That eerie shaking was a warning……and worse you expect to feel it in the next man and the next one and the next one.
Welcome to Car Crash Love. Climb in and pad your self well. The ride has only one out come, and it’s never pretty.
Here is a letter I wrote to a client that just can't quite "feel it" with a nice guy. He loves her, but she only feels Car Crash Love. With this man she feels numb.
LETTER ON CAR CRASH LOVE
The neighbor we first read on is seen as someone that thinks you are sweet and delightful.....but he wants and needs a bitch to make his life complete. He must stay in constant fighting mode....conquering mode.....imbalanced mode......to stay with a woman. It’s when he sees a woman become needy, and stop challenging him, that he does not want her. Point blank, he is DONE.
{Psychic Email Reading to client} By SisterOthelia
Your present man is seen harmonious, sweet and gentle. His love for you is unconditional and he will stay the coarse.......and that’s the problem for YOU. There is no danger.......no shiver of an impending car crash.......no sense of hanging on a rubber band ready to hurl you in space. You seek a Car Crash lover.
You felt the Car Crash the moment you saw the eyes of this other man. Rightfully, you drove away scared. You intuitively KNEW impending crisis. How did you know?
- *A shiver will start from the tips of your toes to the top of your head in their presence.
- *You will feel a sense of impending danger...as if ready to be on a sacrificial alter
- *You will notice his way to connect with you is sometimes….unethical
- *Worse, you may find your self allowing that unethical connection to grow into a full blown contact.
- *Understand that Car Crash Cons depend on Nice People for their thrill
- *But the women & men that Car Crash Cons choose long time, are often in constant partying mode and often swingers,
- *Car Crash lovers are good at getting groupies to stand up for them, and protect them,
- *Car crash lovers can manipulate through Pity...make you fight for them
- * When many say "WATCH OUT! THEIR HISTORY HAS BEEN BAD.” {you go in to denial}
- *YOU WILL IGNORE THE FEELING AND STAND UP FOR THEM.
- *Car Crash Cons know that nice people are looking to HEAL the underdog. It makes them feel good about themselves.
- *The Car Crash lover pleads to the heart of the way the Nice person thinks. Desire and want, GET INVOLVED WITH THE PITY….and then the crash happens..
- *Watch out....Someone else’s husband or wife can be a Car Crash Con's target.
- * Car Crash Con's may use the good intensions of a spouse or mate, to conquer and move in for the "Kill".
- * The nice mate never knows it is happening ...until they realize they themselves brought the Car Crash Con in the home to steal their own wife or husband.
- *The Car Crash Con uses the 'soft vulnerable goodness" of pity in a "nice person"
- *Watch out. There is no pity from the car crash lover. They just walk away after the kill.
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