Bad Boys
You have bashed your head into another emotional wall until you feel bloody. But you thought this one would be totally unlike the one before! And then one day it happens....
DID YOU SEE THESE SIGNS?
- Has a problem with sticking to plans, and keeps canceling.
- Has come on as a story book lover ........even if their in another relationship.
- Makes you feel you can depend on them, and just when you are convinced,... they disappear. {Usually with an excuse about how it was because of you.}
- Convinces you they are different then the rest who hurt you. Just when you open up, they go in to a strange anxiety. This leads to them moving on.
- They are always happy...always up. They are magical...and too good to be true.
So you move on, and then find another person who in some way captures an "essence" about the last person you loved. Please know that they may look totaly different, dress totally different, and have a different income.
LOW AND BEHOLD THEY LEAVE TOO! BUT THIS CAN'T BE! YOU WERE CONVINCED THEY WERE DIFFERENT! But here is the thing, my friend, what was that "spark" that "essence" that drew you to them even if their "costume" was totally different then the last partner?
The Essence You Crave in the Bad Boy/Girl
- You are lonely for them just looking at their face. {broken winged bird}
- You see them as a free spirit {come and go when they want}
- They bring the best out of you in euphoric sex. {Needs novelty. Is easily bored}
- You want their Joy! {Because you feel so empty.}
- They seem magnificently confident. {you feel often insecure & easily controlled}
- They seem just like you! {Like 2 kings running the same palace. Competition}
And then one day it happens. You are tired of bashing your head in walls and bleeding. Suddenly the person you wouldn't look at twice because they were all the things that did not excite you, LOOKS SO GOOD.
WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF TRUST?
- They treat you with respect, as well as their friends.
- They are patient with you.
- They lead with wisdom and kindness
- They often give unconditionally {And yes....more then they should.}
- "Home" is where their heart is.
- When they travel, you can trust them.
But you will always be tempted by the BAD BOY/GIRL. And that’s ok. They are like trying on the wrong size of clothing in the dressing room. {You know you will look foolish wearing clothing too big or little for you} They are like the 7th piece of chocolate when you should have stopped at 3 pieces.
SOMETIMES ITS BETTER TO BE ALONE THEN HURT AGAIN.
If you are not finding love at this time, please remember number 1 rule! You were put on this earth as a temple to cover white light energy...that "spark" known as life, and "Angels"..
When you beat your self up inside it is no better then beating a child or loved one. Forget about finding love on the outside, love your self first! When you have joined your white light energy, respect it, love it and nurture yourself as much as losers......you will be rewarded. Here are some of the things you may notice:
- Better Health
- Muscle Tone
- Education
- More Friends
- Less Loneliness
- You will attract
LOVE YOUR INNER ANGELS!