Her Love Relationships stank as bad as her Co Worker ones. Whats Up?
Jane went to work every day, kept her mouth shut, and tried to get along best she could. Often she felt like she was on the outside looking in with Co Workers. She was in love with a man that never included her with his friends. She tried not to whine.
Sometimes she wanted to scream she was so frustrated. She knew she needed a new job....somewhere people would treat her right. The problem was every new job started great, and then she felt ignored again. This also happened in her personal relationships.
SHE CALLED ME TO ASK WHEN A NEW JOB WOULD COME.
I pointed out her pattern, and that she did an outstanding job at work. People appreciated her ethical polite attitude. They used to love her JOY. But because her pattern was to over analyze her words and actions to the extreme once the CHALLENGE of making new friends at work was accomplished, she self sabotaged herself. She became TOO respectful of the work politics and CHANGED. People suddenly didn't know her any more. Her Joy was gone.
SHE ASKED “WHEN WOULD SHE MEET A GUY WHO TRUELY TREATED HER RIGHT?”
Consequently, she also did this "CHANGE" with the present man she loved. Once the CHALLENGE to get him was accomplished, she self sabotaged. Her JOY was gone. She, just like with Co Workers, over analyzed her every action and his. What seemed simple.....became complex. She cared TOO MUCH, whined and became respectfully needy. At the same time she saw herself as if through a microscope and hated it. That’s when she WITH DREW.
"DON'T LOOK FOR A NEW JOB SALLY UNTIL YOU PRACTISE HOW TO STOP SABOTAGING YOUR PRESENT WORK “DYNAMICS."
Otherwise, I warned her, you will risk repeating this same exact pattern at the next job, and the next job......Use your present job as PRACTISE in shutting out "over thinking” Co Workers and Personal Relationships. BRING BACK THE JOY!
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People are mirroring back your paranoia of them.
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Sally, you are so trapped in your own head you don't see what’s really happening.
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Absolutely there are good and bad people. Not your problem.
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Remember to take your Co Worker practice also to your current relationship.
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Bring the challenge to YOUR SELF in refusing to over analyze every word and action as a threat.
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When you have the art of letting go, back, and shut out the negative inner brain chatter, you will see people become JOYFUL around you again.
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