Teach People How to Treat You.
You're tired of feeling ripped off. Every time you give your heart and soul it seems you get the bottom end of the stick. It really starts with you. Train people how to treat you. Do any of these patterns sound like you?
RELATIONSHIPS
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Promises fall like rain but never turn to action? Watch out. You are training a love interest that you will put up with stagnation. Why should they change if you don’t mind?
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“Going Out” is always at your house and never outside of 4 walls? It would be wise to make plans for dinner, hiking, etc. before you turn this into a booty call. 50-50 is the name of give and take on new relationships.
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Do their abusive words and behavior begin to be as frequent as spontaneous combustion towards you, waitresses, or your friends? Excuse your self and leave. Do not train this person their harsh words are acceptable. It’s embarrassing.
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Are you lending money repeatedly? You are training your interest that you are a bank. There is no guarantee you will be paid back.
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Internet relationships never go beyond words? This is no different then a Cadillac Prison Inmate or Military relationship. The name of the game is idle entertainment to fill loneliness with no intent for meeting. If they are free to come and go at will, it’s important you set a date for meeting. Don’t train this person you are so needy you will wait forever. You just may.
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FRIENDS
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Don’t make the mistake of doing everyone else’s work for them. You are training them it’s ok to dump on you and believe me they will.
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Are you telling your deepest secrets to someone that gossips to gain power? Train this person fast by keeping your mouth shut next time they are friendly.
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Don’t make the mistake of being the person who buys every time there is an outing with friends. At first they are grateful. Keep it up you train them to expect it.
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Plans always canceled every time you set a date? Train this person words mean action. Anyone can have an emergency. Repeated cancellations indicate you are not being taken seriously.
If at any time you feel there may be a question about whether you are being dumped on or taking another’s intensions wrong, please contact me. Together we can do a reading on your situation and see what your best course of action is.