YOU CAN'T GET HIM OFF YOUR MIND!
You wake up. The first thing you think of is...
Him.
You brush your teeth, wash your face and wonder about ...
Him.
You eat and talk to family, friends, {husband} thinking about… Him.
You jog, talk, drive and look for him in other cars...
{Was that Him?}.
The phone rings. It’s phone advertising. You think it's......
Him.
You look outside and see a car go by………
was it Him?
You go out with friends. You socialize but your eyes look...
for Him.
Your friends start to avoid you. You just talk about……..
Him.
You impulse buy new clothes, a new car, new Apt, preparing...
for Him.
You watch TV but only think of….
Him.
You go to bed and dream of……....
Him.
The next day it starts all over.
Your brain has now become an old record and the needle is skipping over and over and over the same thought. Him. You feel insane. You want to stop thinking about him; {but not really.} If you did……deep inside you fear he may forget you. What’s left? What if he does not think about you like you think about him? You do the thinking for both of you, as if he can see through your mind.
THINK…… "FILE CABINET. "
What does a file cabinet do? It stores information for later. His Name is STILL THERE, safe in the file cabinet drawer for LATER in the back of your head so you can see clearly the path before you.
1} Imagine a file cabinet in the back of your head.
2}Immediately think “FILE CABINET”
3} Visualize your self putting “Him” in the file cabinet for later.
4} Imagine the sound of the file cabinet shutting tight.
5} He is safe for later in your file cabinet.
3} Even if you think his name 20 times in 1 minute, associate every time
“Him”- File Cabinet …..”Him” – File Cabinet….”Him”…..File Cabinet
“Him-File Cabinet….Him – File Cabinet
If you are truly feeling your power gone and that you are sick and tired of obsessing over someone, THIS WORKS! And remember, he is safe in the file cabinet...
Congratulations. You are now learning how to prioritize like the majority of men.