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Saturday, August 04, 2007 8:58 PM by
Steven Craig
Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Saturday, August 04, 2007 7:19 PM by
spotlessmitchy
Steve was this for me, lol ... good as always
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Saturday, August 04, 2007 7:27 PM by
spotlessmitchy
Steve ... did you do this for me, lol, great as always
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Saturday, August 04, 2007 7:35 PM by
Wintermaiden
This cracked me up. As much as I believe you are right, many times women (me) are incapable of doing "nothing" because we are the "doers"....I am in the situation right now...and I swear that I have days that if one more person tells me to be patient, I'm going to haul off and just clock them. That being said....I must say, my patience is paying off. Yes, it's working. In fact, I'm so close i'm at the part where time isn't moving fast enough. Enough of that...I like the part about cavemen. So, since men haven't really evolved...lol, why can't we just go back to cave days and be allowed to just legally knock some sense into you all? LOL, why do we have to wait for a moose?
Wintermaiden
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Saturday, August 04, 2007 8:14 PM by
BubbleNest
I needed this one this evening. Perfect message at a very good time. Thanks Steve.
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Saturday, August 04, 2007 9:10 PM by
fnreid2002
Steve,
What an excellent followup to Super Nanny! Now I need to work on this one some more...this is exactly what you told me awhile back, to "let him do ALL of the work." Sometimes it is hard to do nothing, but then again I can just sit back and enjoy life just the same by filling my time with things and people that make me happy. So, I'll try to really keep this tidbit in mind once again.
Thanks
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Saturday, August 04, 2007 11:14 PM by
Dharma47
I was thinking the same thing as the first person who commented; and here I thought I was the only one in this situation! But I must ask anyway, was this for me, Steve?
I imagine 4 many of us women who can relate, it's awfully hard to keep silent until that caveman comes around & makes his decision. And I've often wondered if he's sweating & if my silence IS noticed. You're the 2nd male with whom I've discussed (my own situation), who's mentioned the silence going UNnoticed: what a consolation 2 know that I'm on the right track. Now, might ya have any advice dear Steve, on how long the cavemen can sweat vs how patient we women can be? ;-)
Needless to say, your message was well received & most encouraging. Thanx again, Steve.
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Sunday, August 05, 2007 5:24 AM by
Entity0fPain
Heya Steve,
You are right,lol, one of the only men I have come across who is right most of the times,lol. It is hard, to just sit back and do nothing but at times it is necessary. I have been following your advice and just sit back and let him do all the work. It is very hard however, nights when I don't hear from him I sit and wonder and worry but like another told me recently, I cannot give in to that fear. I cannot let that fear control me. If he really loves me, etc etc, he will make an effort. I cannot always make an effort due to fear bc then I will always let that fear dominate my actions and thoughts and I don't want to live like that. I have been feeling better since I took a major step back. However, I am still worried yet I know...if things will work out, I have to change my actions and thoughts. He knows where to find me and if he doesnt reach out, then I know the truth and will save more pain and heartache.
Thanks so much!
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Sunday, August 05, 2007 6:53 AM by
Lori1112
Steve - this came at a perfect time! Thanks for doing this.
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Sunday, August 05, 2007 8:00 AM by
DAMRA
Yes.. other "women of Steve" :)... we are ALL in the same boat. You are not alone. Doing nothing is difficult, but after awhile it feels a lot better than doing everything and getting nothing in return.
Thanks for the new blog Steve. I know you said you received many requests for a new one.. but I'd like to think my email was the main trigger. I'd just like to think that, thank you.
So with men and their behavior with women, it's about taking risks, old brain reflexes, hunter instincts. I understand, but still don't like it. And I understand so you'd think I wouldn't have to keep asking you the same questions, so what's up with that?
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Sunday, August 05, 2007 8:29 AM by
Anna210
Steve, the universe does answer every question and sure enough when I asked what to do with my situation, your blog was delivered to me. Your messages are so universal and very helpful. Thanks again!
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Sunday, August 05, 2007 11:11 AM by
Bella Kitten
Steve, was so excited about the new blog I couldn't wait to listen to it, and isn't it so true in my situation. I have exhausted every avenue and there is nothing left for me to do but sit and wait, especially since I have absolutely no idea where he's hiding, LOL. I pray that you are right and he will come to his senses this month.
In the meantime, I am learning to be patient and with my free time I have come to realize that I really don't need a man to be able to do things on my own. Hey, I have been up many a late night accomplishing things that I never imagined I could myself (I put together a bedroom set all on my own, yay me, LOL). Something for me to brag about and be proud of.
Thanks for this, it just makes me realize more that I have to let go of the fear and that life goes on. I'm okay on my own.
Luv Ya Steve!
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Sunday, August 05, 2007 12:35 PM by
pmg
awesome as always. if cavemen are the way they are, why weren't women given a extra ton of patience? Life would be so much easier this way. I too know you're right. Good lord it will take a ton of patience to do nothing but it must be done. just wish i had a crystal ball to tell me the outcome...oh wait,that's you steve. all is good then. Now you need to talk about bunny blazing in the kitchen with the lights off. lol... thanks steve..
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Sunday, August 05, 2007 1:48 PM by
MM19
Steve...you are just the greatest! How do you know...oh, that's right! Lol. Thanks for the advice. As always, I think you are right!
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Sunday, August 05, 2007 7:04 PM by
Spiritgoddess60
Wisdom... All I can say is, I Love you! Not romanticly , of course, just because you are you and your wisdom is so much appreciated! Yes, life is at times a challenge, especially in trying to understand those from Mars. You have a gift and in delivering your enlightenment with humer makes it so much easier to accept and learn from. Thank you and God for your ability and willingness to share your gifts! With gratitude and appreciation, I applaud you. Please keep it comming...
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Monday, August 06, 2007 6:20 PM by
LCScorpio
So true!!!! And based on my own experience for years in doing everything instead of doing nothing, a greater risk resulted because it gave him the security thinking I'd always be there...it basically was sending him an invitation telling him to do nothing. Also the instinct, perhaps stripping him of those hunting abilities and that is not appealing to a man. Do everything to try and make it work and it usually doesn't, but do nothing and many times things do begin to work out on their own. Thanks, Steve!!!
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Tuesday, August 07, 2007 1:24 PM by
Louisville Lady
As usual Steve, it's the obvious we "overlook", myself COMPLETELY included. The fear is that he will NOT come looking anymore. It's that fear that compels us (as women) to have become the doers. I know you're right. But I guess that's why LOVE is so scary in the first place. If he really LOVES me, his natural instinct will kick in and he'll come looking. I don't know about the other women you've spoken to, but this American girl is pretty scared because my caveman doesn't know if he's coming or going. I know he loves me. He knows he loves me. But I don't know how to get him to stay in one spot anymore! With my luck, he'll show up with the ring (again) and the moose will show up too. (I guess I better make sure my future mother-in-law doesn't know where I live now!) As usual, your common sense "man-talk" should be broadcast on the teleprompter at Times Square. NYC would be a much happier place. Everyone would benefit. :-)
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Wednesday, August 08, 2007 5:11 PM by
Member 8797847
Thanks Steve for not getting upset and just telling us/me the same great advise over and over. You are always right. I just need a daily reminder. I think the "let him chase you" is the very best advice!!We are just so impatient.
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Saturday, August 11, 2007 2:28 PM by
Bella Kitten
Just had to say one more thing Steve while I think of it, because you know I tend to forget things, LOL. DOING NOTHING IS DOING SOMETHING, and we all need to remember that. A once very good friend made that point to me and it's absolutely 100% true. In my case, everything has slowly fallen into place and your one last prediction will be the icing on the cake.
Thanks again Steve,
Gotta Luv Ya!
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Monday, August 13, 2007 5:02 PM by
gaobing
Steven, thank you so much for the wonderful blog. What I appreciate most is your sincere concern for those struggling. As you said, so many times we felt so worn out. So helpless. Yet we love and fear to the risk of losing. But yes, doing nothing, not just to get someone back, but to let fear calm down and let love prove itself. I love your blog. Please keep it going. You are the best!
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Thursday, August 16, 2007 2:07 PM by
Irish Eyes
Oh Steve... had I taken your advice sooner & sat back & done nothing maybe after 3+ years I still wouldn't be waiting for my caveman to get his finger out & make his move! But back then fear, panic & insecurity overtook me & I acted impulsively & lived to regret it. Fortunately, you saw that my actions didn't mean the end, but they did cause a major setback at the time, which had a knock-on effect. Hopefully that will SOON come to an end & things will be sorted before Christmas 2007. With your help, support, guidance & infinite patience, I too have learnt to be patient, to sit back & wait for him to chase me down - to let him be the hunter & get past his fear of maybe being run over by a mousse! I still have to control my fear of that awful, ugly thing happening. But running around like a headless chicken was getting me nowhere fast anyway... it just caused me to become mentally & physically exhausted & emotionally overwrought. So I continue to pretty much do nothing - no calls, nada, zip, zilch - while I wait for his hunter instinct to finally kick in! Thanks for your words of wisdom... & I look forward to the next missive! Love you loads Steve... & thank you so much for everything! xox
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Tuesday, August 21, 2007 1:00 PM by
Timarie46
God it is like you were talking about me directly but, you are so right. This was great. Keep them coming. Luv ya lots. Ti
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Wednesday, August 22, 2007 6:22 AM by
Timarie46
This sounds so like this was directed right at me because of the situation I am in right now. This is so great Steve. You are Great. Thanks Ti
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Thursday, December 06, 2007 4:52 PM by
OceanMoon
Well, there's always Moose bait?
Steve's right if it meant to be it will be. Being anxious, dwelling on will he ever show up is a waste of life energy. If the Einstein man ever wakes up from his coma he will show up. In the meantime remember to breath.
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re: Being Run Over By A Moose and Other Interesting Tidbits In Life
Wednesday, December 12, 2007 12:03 PM by
joanie0312
You did it again!!! This is great. doing nothing to fix things is hard to do..especilly for us women. Thanks
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