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I Met A Guy On a Dating Website...

 

Dear Storm,

 

I recently met a guy on a dating website, and I am wondering whether or not I should meet him.   I am expecting someone to be marriage material and I am not really all that willing to extend myself if I do not have some form of guarantee.  Is this going to work out?  Is he the man of my dreams?  

 

Olivia in TX

 

Dear Olivia,

 

These are always very tricky questions to answer as a psychic.  First, you have never met the guy so his energy really is not intertwined in yours, which is how a psychic picks up on the people around you.   Secondly, it is always better to actually be involved with a person before asking a question about marriage.   I usually do not predict marriage if I do not see it within a year.

 

The first thing that I am picking up around this guy is that he is window shopping at the moment.    He is trying to look at all the goods and services offered in order for him to make a choice.   I get the strong feeling that he is writing to a lot of different women and trying to communicate with many of them, which there is nothing wrong with that as people are getting to know each other.   So, do not be trapped into the idea that he is only talking to you, because he simply is not.   Further, and this is where my concern is, I do feel that there is already someone that is in his life, and I am picking up psychically 2 small children around this guy.   So, I do not think that he is actually online looking for something serious, but actually looking for something extra.    I do not feel that there is going to be anything that will develop in this situation.

 

Let me tell you something else that will save you a bit of time.   Always remember, that LISTINGS are created to attract people to them.  If a guy puts up on a listing that he has 2 kids, is involved with someone, and is looking for some quick snake oil charming in the back of his Toyota, he is not going to get many offers.  So guys are not going to put that up.  All guys on dating websites are looking for long term relationships, because it ATTACTS people to their listings.   When you stumble upon someone you like, then make sure that you INTERVIEW, INTERVIEW, INTERVIEW, and INTERVIEW some more.  

 

With Light,

 

Storm

 

P.S.   If anyone else has tips for online dating that they might want to have or any experiences that they have had with online dating please feel free to comment.

 

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Published Wednesday, May 09, 2007 2:55 PM by Storm Cestavani

Comments

# re: I Met A Guy On a Dating Website...

Thursday, May 10, 2007 8:28 AM by ARE09
I have done some online dating in the past - met my recent ex-boyfriend that way as matter of fact. Contrary to popular belief, it's not a bad a way to meet people, but one really must be cautious just the same. My number one problem with online dating (and I'm only speaking from experience here) is that guys seem to have difficulty letting go of the ego-boost that talking to several women at once can give them and that makes it easier for them to keep their profiles "active" long after they've supposedly "found" the "right" woman.  I dated a guy for many months whom even after months of dating me was still scouting women on dating sites. I had a sinking suspicion one day and decided to go check the dating site that he and I had met each other on and sure enough, his profile was still "active" showing that he'd been online just that day. Needless to say I kicked his sorry butt to the curb.

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