How to attract love...
1- Make sure you have healed from past hurts and let go of past relationships. Every love is different and looking back into the past may interfere with the start of a good relationship. Talk to a therapist about unresolved issues, read some self help books and close the previous love chapter with a positive attitude.
2- Know yourself. As we get older, we know ourselves better: our hot buttons, what we don't like and what we love. Stay true to yourself once you start the quest of new love. Think healthy, think clearly and don't let the hormones do the talking.
3-Light a pink candle (love) in the new moon (black moon on the calendar) and meditate by thinking about the relationship you would like to have in your life now. See it fitting harmoniously into your actual life, feel the love and commitment...Use your imagination and allow your mind to create a movie with full colors and sensations. But don't try to visualize the person yet!! Just the relationship.
4-Get a portable bottle of water and rip the outside label. Buy some adhesive labels and write on each 4 detachable ones:
NEW LOVE - HARMONY - COMMITMENT - FRIENDSHIP
Apply each 4 stickers on the water bottle and drink only from this water. Refill regularly the bottle with water as soon as the level drops beneath the labels.
5-Start to change your social routine by taking classes, learn a new sport that will make you meet the opposite sex more easily. For ex: women should think about learning golf (men sport) or computer classes.
6-Take care of your appearance no matter where you go and when you go. You never know who you may meet. First impressions are important. Smile and feel confident!
7-When you meet someone interesting, think to make a friend first. If after a couple of meeting you feel that you would not naturally have a friendship with this person, it is likely a love relationship won't make it either even if there is a chemistry.
Look for emotional immaturity, unstable (does not walk the talk) or impossible expectations in the new person. These are signs of emotional issues that will make this individual unavailable to your love.
8-Don't stick on a person who shows problems quickly. They are plenty of available singles out there, don't let yourself trapped by your need to work on things to appear to be a good partner. If you know this person for less than 6 months and you see some significant problems, pass!!!! It won't get better with time.