If the inside is dirty the outside will become tarnished.
In other words what you see on the outside is a reflection of what is on the inside.
If you are unhappy with what is happening in your life, believe me, there is something within you, a part of you that you don’t like, a fear you have and you have radiated this outwards, and thus like a mirror it is reflecting right back at you.
If you want to change your life then first you must change yourself.
Look every single type of teaching be it religion, spiritual, new age, space age whatever type of teaching it is, are telling you the same thing, it’s not what is being done to you that matters, it’s what you do with it that matters.
All these teaching books are great they tell you what you should be doing, but very few tell you how to do it, and you read them and expect things to suddenly change usually because you have been told if you think it, hey presto it will happen, well sorry it’s not that easy.
The first step to getting the outside to change is look at the inside, what are your fears, what is it you believe about yourself, what is it you believe others believe about you.
If someone is doing something which hurts me in anyway, I look to see what fear I have that this particular person has awakened in me, once I know that, I can do something about it, meaning, I can take charge of my feelings towards the situation and then decide what action to take.
If you are acting out of fear, you will not be able to see the situation for what it truly is and therefore you will not be able to take the right actions.
Before you go off the deep end, ask yourself why is it affecting you the way it is, what are you so afraid of then and only then can you take steps forward to making life work for you, and if you don’t know the right questions to ask yourself then find someone who can ask those questions to you, because until you know what is inside you, you won’t be able to clean it out and the outside will continue to stay tarnished.
Blessings.