The Law of Attachment
You can have anything you wish for in your life but if your sense of self-worth or happiness depends on it then you are attached to it, and that attachment will lead to it manipulating you.
Attachment is conditional love and conditional love causes cords to bind themselves around that person thus entrapping not only them but you.
Your self-worth, your happiness comes from within not from things or people.
When we have an attachment to something or someone we put expectations on them, and this will lead to our disappointment, because when you expect someone else or something else to be responsible for your self-worth or happiness that thing or person will never be able to live up to those expectations.
Being detached from things or people doesn’t mean you love them less, or want them less it simply means you don’t NEED them, you are not relying on them to fulfil your self-worth or your happiness for you.
To detach from someone or something simple visualise yourself letting go of that thing or that person.
Forgiveness will unbind you from something that has happened in the past and set you and anyone else involved free.
If you wish to be free, detach yourself from everyone and everything. It is a prerequisite for enlightenment.