Would You Want To Spend Time With You?
That’s my answer to you in response to your question to me, "why don’t they want to be with m"?
If you wouldn’t want to spend time with yourself then how can you expect anyone else to want to spend time with you.
I know it’s painful when someone walks away from us, and to add to that pain is sometimes a total lack of understanding why they did it. But there are simply some things we just cannot understand, and chances are even if we were given an explanation we still wouldn’t fully understand because we would see things from our own point of view and not theirs. There comes a time when we have to let it go.
Would you like your lasting memories of yourself to be as someone who was clingy, who just wouldn’t let go, someone who didn’t respect themselves let alone someone else. Would you like to be remembered as a real pain in the butt.
So many ruin the chances of reconciliation, or of meeting someone new, because they are constantly chasing after something that simply isn’t there, trying to live their yesterdays today.
When does the hurt go away from a broken relationship, when you decide to let the hurt go, when you decide there is more to you than a wounded person and more to life than being hurt.
Ask yourself would you want to go back to you after the way you have been acting? The choice is yours, it’s not easy getting over a broken relationship but it shouldn’t be stopping you from living either.
Blessings