SIGNS WE SHOULD ACCEPT THAT A RELATIONSHIP HAS COME TO AN END…

It can be a very difficult time in ones life when a relationship is near its end.. I feel we hold on at times way to long and stop are energy from moving forward. We may hold on for fear of being alone, financial failure, our children, change, or just feeling bad for the other persons emotions. I feel every relationship serves a purpose whether it be good or bad. We must open our eyes for the lessons we can learn from each person who has entered our lives. Some have made us stronger and some teach us what to never repeat again. In all my years as a card reader my most common readings revolve around a want for a person in a past relationship. I have seen people waste so much of their energy on someone that has moved forward from their lives. What baffles me the most is when someone has not given up on a past relationship years after it has ended. This is so bad for the reason, it blocks someone new from entering that persons life. I try to help these people understand why it has ended and focus on helping them get closure to why it ended. Some of the most common signs a relationship has ended is lose of love. Love runs on many levels within a persons heart. You must first try to determine if you love them or are in love with them. When you love them you care about their well being as a person. You may just be living in a platonic state and not allowing real joy to flow within your hearts. Fear of never finding true love or not knowing where your life will lead if you walked away can keep a failed relationship going. Signs of constant arguments, distrust, cheating, drinking and drug use, going out with friends way to much, working overtime when money is not a issue, distance while in the same space, day dreaming constantly, and mostly lack of intimacy are red flags that it is time to end a relationship. We need to become stronger and remove fears of what is holding us back. When we stay in unhealthy relationships our families suffer, our children suffer, and we suffer. If someone has moved on from you and does not come back into your life, try to forgive them and look at the lessons that relationship has taught you. It can be extremely lonely at first and allot of self reflecting will hit you hard. It can be a shame when we do not allow ourselves to heal and we stay blocked  from moving forward. We have to break free from bad relationships that hold us back and only allow true love in our lives. Life is not a game and we need to learn to respect one another for their feelings, truth, and emotions. If effort is not made mutually and trust cannot be restored, we can be heading down a path of destruction with one another. It is not about settling with someone out of fear or security but being with someone for you have fallen in love with each other. Life can be very long so do not give up your search for true love and that person who completes your life.

NAMASTE, MELANIE