Falling in love can be one of the most exciting feelings of life. We become excited about that person in so many simple ways. The way they smile at us, hold our hand, smell, kiss, and the anticipation of waiting for the phone to ring can make our heart skip beats. The feeling of finally finding someone who can fulfill our hearts desire on a soul level is amazing. Now the hard part of all of this is trust. The fear of losing this person can become just as intense as the love. We may start to question there motives and thoughts. What we didn't even look at in the beginning can turn into insecurities within ourselves. Questions may arise in our heads of doubts and fears. Innocent acts that person lives can become trust issues we create. This can become a downfall to sabotaging our relationships.

 

I feel to avoid all of this is honesty. If doubts of insecurities arise within your relationship tell that person. Explain to them how much you love them and always be honest when you are being insecure. Be upfront about your fears and at all costs do not hold it in. If we hold in our fears they can expand within our minds and almost become real to us. Now I am not saying that every person is always innocent. The bad apples do exist and also should be confronted. Our minds can create situations out of the smallest fear. We can blow up someones ego so fast it is scary. We can make a lovers honest friend turn into a full blown love affair in a matter of 5 minutes. The fear of losing that person can become so overwhelming it can turn us numb inside. I believe in time trust can become strong within any relationship. As long as we tell one another what is on our minds I feel insecurities can dwindle.