Finding your place...
Finding your place in life can be as challenging as accepting, with grace, all of your deficits along with all of your positive attributes. What do you bring to the world that is not a deficit to some while being a saving grace to others?
Some of the questions that can and do arise when accepting your place in this world can be down right tedious. I learned a long time ago, not to judge others, because karmically speaking, when it comes back to you it can be one of the worst lessons to learn.
Being quick to judge others negatively, only shows lack of understanding on the part of the one judging. It's not a fault, but it starts a karmic ripple that cannot be undone until it comes back around, and even then, if not handled correctly, it can be life changing. Learning lessons are part of life, and acceptance is half the battle.
How did I begin to take a step back and stop judging others? It's quite interesting. While keeping in mind that my work is a spiritual one, I had to approach this topic with understanding. Understanding exactly where and how the individual came up with their 'point of view' was not always an easy task, and knowing the roots of the problem were probably deeper than the individual could conceive, I took sympathy.
Those who lack spiritual understanding, will have a quick draw attitude, rather than a slow meditative one, especially when spiritual changes are adding to their emotional state. Understanding this state, and knowing the karmic reactions that follow suit, I choose to cut myself off from individuals who are not ready to accept their growth in a productive manner.
Blaming everyone else for your unhappiness is not the answer, and agreeing with an emotional point of view is not wise if true help is intended.