HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHY CERTAIN PEOPLE COME INTO OUR LIVES' ?
Reason, Season or Lifetime? Here's something to think about...................Why people come into our life and how we should look back upon it when or if they leave.................... When you know which one it is, you will know how to ultimately accept the eventual outcome and use it as a positive experience, rather than a relationship failure .
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on with acceptance, fullfillment and peace.
Some people come into our life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. And usually always cry. They may teach you something you have never done. They bring you to places within yourself you have never been. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.! These people usually (although not always) lack the staying power to go the distance when the going gets tough.........But they gave you the best they had, even for a short period of time and now it is time to move on knowing you do so without any self inflicted guilt or regrets.......
Yes, there are those who come into our life for a LIFETIME relationship. These relationships teach us lifetime lessons. Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. This is someone who eventually you know you can not spend the rest of your life without. Your job is to accept the lessons, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
Thus realizing you are with your soulmate.......
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. ..........
Having said that, the intention of the above is to give you permission.........
Permission to live without judgement. Permission to love unconditionally........
and permission to accept that as in ALL life, as well as every single living thing that comes into our life....... there is a beginning, a middle and an end.........
It's not so much where you end up when your days are long exhausted,
but the memories you have gathered from the journey you have taken..............
love, vicky