VICTORIA SANDS

A soulmate is that person that for good or not good, is contracted to bring us our lessons in this life time. The word mate means "friend". So they are an Anam CHara, or soul friend, and behave as such. So if you have someone in your life that is obviously teaching you something, then they are a "soul mate" to you.

Blessings

I believe in Kindermates, Soulmates to me are the AFterlife ~ the one waiting for us in when we cross over.

Kindermates you can go through many in your lifetime. They are the ones that come to us through each phase of our life.

I met someone last April of 2006. When I met him I was floored. Why? Because I knew him from a past life. I knew him, yet, in this life today, it was the first time I saw him and yet, I KNEW HIM from a PAST LIFE. I couldn't stop looking at him and he felt the same way. I am not talking about love at first sight, I am talking about the knowing, the feeling that I knew this person before.
I knew he was my Kindermate.

From the pastlife that we had once, we had a heck of a time being together. And we are now.
This life today is being given to us, another chance to be with my Kindermate. And has been a repeat struggle once again but this time, I think we will actually be together in time.

There is a difference between Kindermate and Soulmates. Kindermates are the now, today.
Soulmates are those who have crossed over and are or may be waiting for you.

A SOULMATE IS SOMEONE WHO DRIVES YOU NUTS... RAISES YOUR PHONE BILLS, AND CHEATS ON YOU... KEEPS YOU UP AT NIGHT, AND NEVER CALLS WHEN THEY SAY.... ITS NOT SOMEONE YOU KNEW IN A PAST LIFE BECAUSE IF YOU DID YOU WOULD RUN LIKE HELL.....

This is a good question, Vicky, and here are some of my thoughts.

I feel there are several types of soulmates. I feel there are the nonromantic ones, those from past lives or our time inbetween in transit whom we've known and are knowing again. We have an instant connection on thing after thing, and it is clear, "yes, I have known you...good to see you again."

As for romantic love, I feel there might be a few kinds of ways a person can be a soulmate. I think that with laws of attraction perhaps we've been with one person time and time again life after life, and we meet that person again. Is it right to say "OH, it's my soulmate [in that we've known each other before] and let's get married this time too!", or are we to, perhaps finally, come to realize this person, although a soul bond is felt and kindredness, is not best suited for us and we're to finally NOT be with them in one of our lives.

Another kind of soulmate I feel is the kind that comes into our lives from the cosmos to fulfill a purpose, although perhaps not a lifelong purpose.

Another would be someone who is a strong soul connection, and we've known each other before, but have never been together in any life, and still feel it's best to, although the connection, to not actually be together. Nonetheless we run naturally are drawn and because of that find each other in life after life.

Then there's the soulmate that is, whether it's been the same in past lives or not, a mirror of ourselves, the parts of ourselves we're missing as well as the parts of ourselves that shine 100 times brighter because of the way the other sparks with us...typically we see similar patterns and life experiences with this person, and it's perhaps like the partner is our "romantic-doppleganger".

Victoria,I believe my Steve is my soul mate.I've talked to you several times on Keen.I'll probably be calling again.I believe you only have 1 soul mate,and I've met mine,but I don't believe our time is right. I want to have a baby with him so bad,I pray,and pray.He's out of my life,and I don't know if he's coming back to be mine.I want nothing else but to be back with him,and for me to get pregnant,and have a healthy happy baby or babies with him.I ask God for this miracle every time I pray.Please contact and let me know what you see.(636)462-4470.Sincerely yours,Tina.