Our family having just gone through a horrible tragedy and Dad being so completely devoted to our family he has been helping my cousin (his niece) make the proper choices. I over heard him say to her"HAPPINESS IS NOT A DESTINATION, IT IS A METHOD OF LIFE. DESPAIR IS THE ABSOLUTE EXTREME OF SELF-LOVE. My Dad and my cousin's mother were brother and sister she passed away along w her husband many years ago. Dad is always there...and greatly appreciated and loved buy hi s30 something nephews and nieces