Half the battle in the game of love and relationships

is figuring out what you're looking for, what you

need and what you want. Yeah, you think that

sounds simple. Not so! It's anything BUT simple.


More often than not, people will tell you what they

 do not want , but have trouble identifying qualities

they desire in a  relationship. Now think on this for a

few minutes before you slam me and say I'm full of

it. How many times have you began a conversation

about this and found yourself talking about the

disasters of your past relationships? People will end

up spouting words like "I'm not going to be put in

this position...........I can't stand a

jealous.........................I have to have my

freedom..........No one is going to own me.............I

won't tolerate being cheated on ....................etc.

You get the idea.

The problem is when you start going over every

negative thing you do not want in your future

experience, you are giving those very things your

thought energy. And what you focus your thoughts

on, my loves, is what you manifest in your life.


 

So place your thoughts on a mate or partner out

there in affirmative manner.



I seek my partner who complements me in life. One

 who shares my adventures and my quiet times. I

seek one who is mutually attracted on all levels and

 who has the capabilities to work at having and

maintaining a healthy balanced relationship for life.

Let this partner be my best friend, my lover and my

enduring mate.



That is just a suggestion, but you see where I am

going? You can add more specifics if you like, it's

your thought energy. Perhaps you want to specify

compassionate, loving, kind and giving person with

an evolved soul,etc.



Just give time and focus to what is desired not so

 much to what is not and watch the changes that

 occur for you.


I spoke today about doing this in regards to

relationships of a romantic nature but it is effective

in all relaionships. What we think about colors what

is brought about many times.