Am I cursed
Am I cursed?
With all the bad things going around, people often ask that question and probably the worst thing you can do is walk into Mrs. Romany shop and ask that question unless you really want to flush a few thousand dollars down the drain.
The first step is to understand the natural flow of magick. I am spelling it with a “k” to differentiate it from the pulling a rabbit out of the hat tricks.
Energy and magick follow the laws of physics. It always brings a state of wonder to me, how practitioners and others can “curse” people on a daily basis and then sit around and wonder about their “bad” luck. A person recently told a the story of how two other vendors wanted her space in a flea market and several other “new age” vendors wanted her out of business. Finally after almost losing her life, she did a protection and mirror spell and the results on these people were disastrous. The energy bouncing back even hit their family members.
So the first law of magick/physics is energy sent will either be received or bounced and it doesn’t matter whether the energy is good or bad. I recently wished someone success as long as they stayed far away from me. It rebounded on me because this person really doesn’t want success. They are having way too much fun wallowing in their failure. Unfortunately the energy that returned to me, combined with their negative energy toward me and all Hades broke loose because my shields were up.
So, be very, very careful what you send. Once it gets out there, it can turn into something very different from your intention; but, back to the original question and the answer. Every book you read says when bad things happen look within to see what you did. Since most people come from a Judeo/Christian or the “Guilt” background, the first thing they look for is what THEY did wrong. They must have done something to cause all this bad luck. When the authors wrote that question, they didn’t give you answer at the same time. You might want to read that sentence a few times.
They meant to examine what has been happening in your life and the people around you. The lady I was talking about did nothing wrong but be successful. My approach, when someone is having success and I’m not, has always been to see what they are doing right and improve on it. Her competition was convinced it was not what she was doing but the location. If it was what she was doing, it had to be something that took away from them. The result was a bunch of curses. Nothing good she tried to do would stop these people. And what is really hilarious is nothing that happened after that point, would a single one of them attribute to their original actions.
Let’s say someone wants my store, puts a lot of energy into forcing me out of business and then gets it. Where do you think the negative energy is going to be sitting? Yup, right in that space waiting for the next hapless victim to drop into it. Then they sit around and wonder why they just went out of business. If you are an innocent wandering into that space, a simple clearing with some sage will solve the problem and a sage wand is about 7.98, but if you are the originator of the energy, good luck with that! That’s like standing in a bear trap and wishing it away. It’s got your number.
What happens when the hapless victim clears the space? That energy has to go somewhere and it has your address. Once again, good luck with that one! In other words, direct attack is something a real practitioner is going to avoid at all costs. That’s why a genuine curse is so infrequent, unless you are dealing with a crazy person.
Someone who is totally obsessive will, every couple minutes, have you and your situation come to mind and with that be sending out another burst of bad energy your way. The only thing you can do is erect a shield and keep fixing it every blasted day. No one else can do it for you. Yes, it is a pain in the low posterior, but practitioners learn to do just that on a daily basis. The odds of a nutcase giving up on you are slim to nil. So you have to determine the mental health of the people around you and your own. Are you obsessing over someone? That can be bringing the bad things right back to your doorstep.
How do you fix this so you don’t fall into the trap of actually cursing yourself? First off, eliminate jealousy. That, I have found in 57 years, is the root of just about every curse anyone has every leveled at the guy next door. New Flash: just because it is successful for Joe doesn’t mean it is going to work for you. Success is a complicated thing and the thing everyone has left out is: success has to be compatible with your vibration. Look at the people who win the Lotto and are broke at the end of the year, estranged from all loved ones and in the gutter if you don’t believe me.
Just because something is working for one person doesn’t mean it will work for you. I know a woman who is so jealous of my store she is green. However, if you ask her if she is willing to clean up, do inventory, price products, stay there 8 hours a day and all the mundane things a store requires the answer is a resounding: “You’ve got to kidding!” She wants to be a buyer, but is unwilling to look at markups, sales trends and host of other really mundane things that don’t fall into the: “Oh, pretty, buy” world.
I know a man that wants to be a great HooDoo doctor, but when it comes to holding someone’s hand at one in the morning, convincing someone a spell isn’t a good idea and not just taking the money and running or generally inconveniencing himself for another: “Hell no!” Naturally, he is jealous of my success but guess how I got there.
Thus, if bad things are happening, look within at what you are doing and don’t assume it is something bad. As I said, my good wishes slapped me up side the head. The main lesson is not in learning what to do, but in what not to do. There is a time to walk away and do nothing as hard as it may be. And there is a time for action. Just because someone doesn’t act doesn’t mean they won’t. Never play the game of seeing how long you can poke the bear before the bear gets really angry. Weigh your actions and keep in mind if you have the smug little feeling you are getting away with something, it may not last. That is when you really need to examine what you are doing.