How To Develop A Mutually Rewarding Relationship
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Client LCScorpio: “Since 2003 he has given me the most accurate, ethical, and insightful guidance. After thousands of dollars spent on Keen, I do know those who I can trust and those who I cannot. For both career and relationships, Mark's accuracy has been 80 to 90% for me through the years, I could make a list a mile long on the things Mark has shared that has been confirmed without a doubt, and what I appreciate the most he helps to spiritually guide and listen so that we don't sit and wait on predictions as we have to spiritually process if we want our dreams to happen, and sure enough as we do seek the spiritual, the best outcomes are possible. He has helped me to work with the events now and prepare for future with compassion and accuracy that have been priceless to me; cannot thank him enough!”
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Goals/objectives we desire and intend in a satisfying personal relationship:
The most important areas of mutual compatibility between any two individuals are shared spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical energies.
Spiritual: seeking rewarding spiritual growth, emphasizing mutual strengths and helping to transform weaknesses, space/room for individual processing of karmic issues
Emotional: feeling deep love, understanding, compassion, feeling special and comfortable with each other, emotional closeness/bonding and fullness, consideration, sensitivity, gentleness, kindness, compassion/caring
Mental: intellectual stimulation, sharing/communicating interests
Physical/Intimacy: sexual attraction and fulfillment, exclusivity, closeness, emotional love making, sharing fiscal responsibilities
Friendship: supporting and observing each others needs, pursuing happiness, commitment to resolve issues, ability to confide with trust/honesty in each other, mutual faith/belief, dependability, and respect
Relationship misconceptions:
Expectation of our partner's behavior generally ruins a relationship. In other words, it is a misconception that what matters most is what the other person is doing, being, saying, wanting, demanding, planning, and thinking. Undesirable reasons to enter a relationship include: ending loneliness, filling a gap, someone to love, salving ego, ending depression, improving sex, rebounding, relieving boredom. Love is not how to lose the least as a response to a need in a fulfillment-trade. Furthermore, a loss of self-identity in order to always please others through self imposed obligation, also causes resentment/failure. The real question is: how are we responding/feeling within ourselves?
Application of spiritual principles to transform our consciousness and enhance compatibility:
General spiritual philosophy and principles:
In order to be happier in any relationship, we must first spiritually transform ourselves. We believe anyone may develop his or her own intuitive abilities/gifts for greater self-fulfillment and happiness. An intention of inner individual commitment, dedication, and application of divine truths intellectually and most importantly, with feeling and purity of heart, is paramount in the process. Most importantly, a feeling of unconditional, divine love continuously at all times and even in adversity is required. To us, the concept of sacrifice means to let go of any mental beliefs or emotions, which may inhibit our alignment with spirit. The more we can eliminate and heal remaining undesired limitations/beliefs in the dream state and meditation, the less likely it is that we must experience miss-aligned/uncleared energy in our the physical reality. This is how the illusionary events outside ourselves do not have to directly affect us; only our reactions affect us. So it is very important to trust and have faith that all is in perfect divine order, even if events and circumstances seem imperfect. If we can non-judgmentally allow all and know only perfection; perfection (through miracles) will eventually be all that there is in and around us. Some other spiritual truths include: purity of intention, faith, power, vision of perfection, flexibility/fluidity, divine will, humility, strength/courage, wisdom, patience, understanding, joy/zeal/energy, gratitude, and compassion. A highly recommended book that explains many of our spiritual truths and has been helpful to us on our spiritual path is Conversations with God (Vol. 1) by Neale D. Walsch.
A technique we call "spiritual synchronistic pathfinding" has helped us a great deal in our spiritual growth. In modern times, the concept of synchronicity was characterized in the mid 1900's by the psychologist Carl Jung (Synchronicity) and popularized by James Redfield (Celestine Prophecy). Synchronicities or signs are apparent random event coincidences in our physical reality (e.g., dreams and/or outer world) which are, in actuality, perfectly ordered sacred language communications originating from the source of higher consciousness (fourth and higher dimensions) representing the status of our reality creation. These seeming coincidences are actually signs or clues that may guide us and include two or more different symbols (i.e., any observable objects of awareness) converging around a person or place and these symbols occur unexpectedly, simultaneously or sequentially, in time or space. An example might be observing, over a short or long period of time, two or more real butterflies in nature; pictures and/or names of butterflies in dreams, in the major media (e.g., television, radio, magazines, newspapers), conversations, signs, license plates, etc. Say, if the number "53" has been repeating also…then when you might meet a person with a butterfly on their clothing on May 3rd or room 53; pay attention. When interpreting synchronicities, it is important to keep all possible meanings/perspectives viable (as in a puzzle in which there are initially many possible pieces that might fit) as we do not wish to jump to conclusions since our overall intuitive perspective may change as the solution to the puzzle is allowed to unfold.
Applied spiritual principles to improve relationship harmony:
The primary purpose (of relationships) is to present an opportunity for ultimate reunion with God/Goddess/All-That-Is. Through the sacred communion of two souls, we discover who we each truly are. Instead of reminding others who they are (difficult because they probably will not believe you); it is far more desirable to remember who we are (easier since we do not need their beliefs, only our own). As individuals, we must first take responsibility for our own thoughts, feelings, and actions (i.e., others usually mirror our own issues back to us). Our issues we resist dealing with, persist. Conversely, issues within ourselves we allow to heal with self-forgiveness and unconditional love, disappear. View healing false thoughts and misaligned feeling opportunities for spiritual growth.
Faced with a choice in any matter, ask ourselves: what would love do now? We must be comfortable and willing to be vulnerable, take risk, and trust by clearly expressing our own feelings. It is a higher choice to assess how well we live up to our own expectations by focusing on what we are being, doing, having, saying, wanting, demanding, planning, thinking, and feeling within ourselves. Remember that it is not the action of another that is as important as our own re-action. Are we unconditionally loving or failing to love (i.e., in fear)? Constantly demonstrating love reminds others who they are and they (or someone else) will eventually see themselves in us! The best and highest spiritual choice is what is best for our spiritually aligned self and this is what is ultimately best for others.
In order to fully transform our relationships, intend and visualize the essence of how we would feel if we had the perfect relationship in the present. In other words, have faith and give gratitude for the perfect relationship I am creating prior to its appearance. Either an existing relationship will transform or a new person will be presented. Since it is a universal principal that what we share or project into the physical world returns to us manifold; it is most desirable to give to others what we wish to receive ourselves. As our highest intended priority (in or out of relationship), through our individual and sacred connection with the God/dess source and knowing we are each holy, blessed, cherished, and loved; then we are much more likely to attract a partner to match our spiritual frequency. Intend a committed agreement that the purpose of all our relationships (with Spirit, ourselves, and another), are to create an opportunity for mutual self-discovered growth/expression by having another to share our own completeness, gifts and self-discovered highest potential.
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About isismatch (Mark) ...Keen Member Since: 9/9/2000 :
Mark, as isismatch, specializes in relationships and work/career), intends to share an objective/unique perspective as an intuitive forecast roadmap of probable/likely events/trends (like weather prediction) for love/romance and vocation.
Mark's background and Consultation objectives (Click below):
Client LCScorpio: “Since 2003 he has given me the most accurate, ethical, and insightful guidance. After thousands of dollars spent on Keen, I do know those who I can trust and those who I cannot. For both career and relationships, Mark's accuracy has been 80 to 90% for me through the years, I could make a list a mile long on the things Mark has shared that has been confirmed without a doubt, and what I appreciate the most he helps to spiritually guide and listen so that we don't sit and wait on predictions as we have to spiritually process if we want our dreams to happen, and sure enough as we do seek the spiritual, the best outcomes are possible. He has helped me to work with the events now and prepare for future with compassion and accuracy that have been priceless to me; cannot thank him enough!”
Relationships (Click below):
Spiritual Principles to transform your life (Click below):